Search Results: approaching men

What's a polite and subtle way of rejecting a church guy?

My bestie and I have just joined a new church group in a Scottish church in the city. We're joining to befriend other women. However, whenever we're in mixed groups of men and women, we seem to have some trouble with the...

BrightBubblyKat

Xper 6 Age: 37

Guys, if someone approach you on Tinder with a fear of intimacy looking to get over it by slowly experimenting with you, what should she say?

I have an unusual question to ask and I'd really appreciated your thoughts and advices. I have a crippling fear of intimacy (emotional & physical) and it has prevented me from having any meaningful relationships so...

Amondee

Xper 2 Age: 38

His choices are making our future unclear. How should I approach it?

Both 32yo together 9 months. We are all the time traveling from my parents to his and he seems fine with it. While I am not. He just rejected a secured job with a great salary to try building a career he dreamed of in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Men what makes a gal attractive to you? And how to tell a friend that her energy might be why she never gets approached?

Sorry, long one title basically says it but details are in description. So my bestie of 15 years now, we were talking about guys and getting approached. Her saying she's not beautiful and no guy has ever approached...

19magic

Guru Age: 29

As a woman, can you determine how attractive you are by the type of man you attract?

I know most decent looking women get approached by men, but is there a difference in the type of men who approach very attractive women vs. average women that is noticeable?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why aren't I able to get anywhere near getting a new boyfriend that I want?

So far i only been online dating since i did i kept meeting men in real life from youth club. i have missed two meetup that is aim for learning disability in Manchester. my town is Warrington and only has youth club but...

TheSimFans

Xper 5 Age: 27

Why my coworker married man always want my attention? He approach me often?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you capitalise on your beauty?

I've always been very pretty but not really been aware of it till I got older. Boys always liked me until went to secondary school boys hated me, they'd bully me and tell me I was ugly, stupid, bitch etc. Now I'm older I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are women much more insecure and unhappy than men?

For example, I think that most women want taller guys more than men want shorter women, but it's mostly because women care more about appearing smaller and feminine (narcissism) than men care about seeming bigger and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, be honest if you don't like dating apps or guys approaching you what other method is there to find someone?

I know we live in a day and age where young women will say I don't care about marriage, having kids is shackling women and it's oppression, guys are only after one thing. But really to the girls out there reading this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

People say I’m pretty but no one approaches me, why is that?

I have been told I am pretty, and some back story I suffer from pretty bad body dysmorphia. When I look in a mirror I see a literal troll looking back at me. It’s hard to know what to trust sometimes. and I am aware that...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do people need to be told that they are broke everyday?

I was involved with a narcissist, and he told me that I was broke every day all day. One day he called me broke 152 times in a half an hour. When he met me he knew I wasn’t rich and he said he was OK with me then all of a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it possible to re-attract my friend?

Pretty much I was dating a friend because we both had strong feelings for eachother, however, I then entered a kind of rough time in my life and began to act weak, needy and clingy around her to the point she found me to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do men have crushes that last a long time? How long have you had a crush on a woman?

People say men look at women like a piece of meat and it’s on to the next in a day. But do men actually have genuine crushes on women that last a long time? And was it because you were shy to approach her? Or wondered if...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I noticed women sometimes posting really stupid questions about how the guy they rejected is now “ignoring them”. Is it just selfishness or guilt?

First off there is absolutely nothing wrong if a woman (tactfully yet directly) rejects a man who is interested in her romantically. It’s 100% the right thing to do (if it’s done respectfully) because the guy now knows...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do I often think I come off as tougher or more dangerous than I do?

I am a soft touch smh Lol. And even beggars linger in my face even if I ignore them but not others around in the area. SMH. The soft touch must really radiate off me. strangers love approaching me for example for asking...

Eonttntn

Xper 2 Age: 34

What place and when do girls prefer to meet and be approached by the man of their dreams?

Anonymous

(25-29)