Do men have crushes that last a long time? How long have you had a crush on a woman?

[Anonymous]

People say men look at women like a piece of meat and it’s on to the next in a day. But do men actually have genuine crushes on women that last a long time? And was it because you were shy to approach her? Or wondered if you were worth it? Or was she worth it? Please share your experiences if this is you.

i have had a crush on a man going on 8 months. And we never talked. The way he looks at me. it’s like he wants to say something. Or maybe he's looking for a signal from me. I don't know

[connemara_crocodile]

In 2 occasions I had a crush for 2 years.

One was a girl I dated for a while during college, but we couldn't continue cause she had a boyfriend (yupp she was cheating on him, I'm not proud of that).

The other one was an actual girlfriend I had for a short time and we had to break up because qe lived in different counties.

Both of them kept going around in my head for a couple of years, even tho I was with other women.

Only time or meeting someone better healed that.

[Anonymous]

I have had the same crush since 2016. Never had one anywhere near as powerful in highschool.

[SunnyRS]

It's not a crush but I liked a girl and she liked me back but things didn't work out, but I still feel something for her.

[MrCommodore]

2-3 years on one occasion

[Habshater22]

I’m still waiting on Rihanna to notice me for almost 15 years now

[BarryLiverstone]

I had a crush on someone for 3 years

[cootjuhh]

i still have a crush on my first love

[kareka]

Wow it can be for years if she is available haha

[boggboss]

Yes men can have crushes

[Asker]

That’s not what i asked

[boggboss]

What would u define as a long time lol

[Anonymous]

it can last for years

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes to all of your questions. Yes to all of the sentences that end with a "?".

[Jamie05rhs]

And the longest crush I've ever had was probably 10 years.