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Of course the extremes like cheating does not count here.

Things you feel you cannot tell your partner because you think it will damage the relationship possibly beyond repair?

Whether it is, that you used to skin animals (e. g. pigeons) for food to survive.

Or that you are into my little pony or transgirl p o r n or you (used to) spend money a few times on only fans.

Or that you have a chronic but hidden on the surface disease or had mental health problems since a long time.

Or that you have some unpaid debts, that you do not want to drag your partner in.

I will not believe you if you say you don't have things to hide from your partner, that you think you can't tell your partner unless there is 100% transparency. That means your partner has fully accepted you with all your quirks, k inks, weirdness, fet ishes and so on.

Also: Not sharing phone, account and computer passwords do not count here. These are cyber security things.

You are single, you are dating, you are in a committed relationship, you are in a relationship that's breaking up, you're married, you're divorced. . . but "it's complicated?" Does that mean you have no idea whether your partner agrees that you are in a relationship, you are playing that silly break-up/make-up game and you can't be honest about what's happening with your partner, you're too embarrassed to explain what kind of a mess you've created, or something else?

Have you ever referred to your status as "it's complicated?" If so, what does it mean for you?

There is a negative stereotype that men are slower to grow up and mature when it comes to how they treat the opposite gender.

Personally I know I think and react differently towards women in general compared to how I was in my teens and early 20s. I am more careful about the comments I make, refrain better from starring too long (if she’s attractive), I communicate better if I am interested or not, I make better thought out decisions and I handle rejection better (and reject others better) compared to the younger version of myself

I also know most women hate the feeling of “being used and/or lied to for sex.” If it’s a hook up or fling I’ll be open about my true intentions even if it costs me want. Not to say I was a liar when I was younger. But years ago I would stay tight lipped if I just wanted one thing when the other girl was thinking we would get in a relationship. In retrospect I recognize that was wrong. Nowadays I don’t give false hope.

That of course doesn’t mean I’m perfect. I will continue to make mistakes. However I am more cognizant of how the other gender thinks now. I also am less likely to get caught off guard if a bad gut sense about something.

With that said I’ve have unfortunately encountered a lot of grown ass women in their 30s and even older that still show blatant immaturity. The worse example is how some of them still play dumb if a guy is interested (and woman isn’t) to exploit the friéndzone for attention and benefits.

I would think a grown woman would know better than to do that. It’s not a sex issue but a respect issue. The guy has only so much time, resources and patience to stick his neck out.

He can handle rejection but being friendzoned is extremely insulting. He will usually figure it out faster than a young man and when he does he will feel exploited.

Just meeting older woman who still believe in this crap is insane.