Is my guy friend allowed to flirt with me after a break up?

[Anonymous]

I just got out of a short relationship it wasn't anything long like a year or anything but i was really close to him. I miss him everyday and the day of the break up my guy friend flirts with me. I don't mind because at the same time he gives me advice about the break up and how to move on but at the same time he tries to flirt with me. We broken up two times but this is the final one. He says sexual things to me on and off but when he sees im not feeding into it he gives up. I mean he did does it RIGHT after the break up while im healing.

[Summeroflove]

If you feel uncomfortable just tell him he’s making you uncomfortable. Yeah I would say if you’re out of a relationship it’s fine to want to be with you. Unless he’s crossing boundaries.

Don’t be rude about it. Unless he keeps doing it. But just tell him he’s making you uncomfortable when he does X, Y, and Z.

But you also said that you don’t mind if he flirts with you. So I would say if you don’t mind and you’re not in a relationship then it’s fine.

But if he’s saying sexual stuff it’s perverted and creepy and he’s probably just after sex. Not a real relationship

[summiter]

He should give you some time to chill and see what is next in your life. How long have you known him? How old is he?

It sounds like he wants to start more than a friendship with you but do you want him as a boyfriend or sexual partner?

[MementoMori777]

Seems ineffective unless it actually effects you negatively, if so you should let him know

[Wise4myage]

He wants to smash?