He suggested me to go out and meet other men?

[Anonymous]

There is this guy I like and chased him during a long time, and we had a meeting yesterday. He told me that he was in a relationship all this time (he had never mentioned that until yesterday) and suggested me to start going out and meeting new people, that I am great and that I will find guys for me. What does it mean? He is very introverted but I've always believed that he was interested in me. I am so confused...

[Anonymous]

It sounds like this guy is trying to let you down gently and encourage you to move on. By suggesting that you go out and meet new people, he may be indicating that he is not interested in pursuing a relationship with you and wants you to explore other options.

While it can be difficult to accept rejection, it's important to respect his wishes and take his advice to heart. It's possible that he may have been giving off mixed signals or sending unclear messages, but ultimately he has been honest with you about his relationship status and his intentions.

If you're feeling confused or hurt by his comments, it may be helpful to take some time to process your feelings and focus on your own needs and goals. Try to surround yourself with supportive friends and family, and focus on activities and hobbies that bring you joy and fulfillment. Remember that there are plenty of other people out there who will appreciate and value you for who you are, and that you deserve to be with someone who is fully committed and available to you.

[ZombieInLove]

It means, I do not interest you