Search Results: not feel so hurt

Is it better to distance yourself from a crush or let it fizzle out naturally?

It's so hard! Like a rollercoaster. When you get attention from your crush you feel on top of the world. And that buzz feeling is so addictive and pleasurable. But when either next day they don't give you attention or...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

Education & Career

Is this a lot of heavy lifting that can cause injury over time?

This is my current job at the moment. There are 90 boxes in total, there's more behind the front row. The boxes get delivered to me by truck and the truckies stack them nicely there. Half the morning I lift one box at a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you cope with a possible breakup?

My boyfriend said today that he doesn't know if he wants to still be with me and it hurts so fucking much. I don't know what to do. I feel so lost. I don't know who I am without him. We've been together over a year...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I just broke up with my 6 year boyfriend he just stood there?

I was holding in some resentment over my boyfriend for 6 years. Something happened this morning and I just lost it. So i broke up with him. It's over things some can be resolved others can not. He had to go to work, his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Whenever my boyfriend says he needs alone time, I feel hurt. What do you suggest I do?

hannah

Influencer Age: 43

Should I be friends with a guy friend who ghosted me or no?

Back story Me and a guy best friend really hit it off when we met, like reaaaaaally hit it off. We started talking like everyday, hanging out with each other quite often in groups and one-on-one and cuddled a lot...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I deal with multiple girls crushing on me?

I know some may say “date them all and see who you like the most” look. I don’t want to hurt them. I don’t want to cause drama. I don’t want to make some of the girls feel worthless because I picked another girl. My guts...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do men compare me to other women?

Why do I have to go through this a lot in different ways. Why? Men always get close to me and end up telling me I look like their ex. For God sakes! The worst thing is that their exes are most of the time blondes but not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How does a dismissive avoidant feel when break up ends on bad terms?

I’m just learning about attachment styles and had no idea this guy i was dating was a dismissive avoidant. We tried to end things amicably but his lack of self awareness and emotional intelligence was the worst. I called...

shanelly

Xper 5 Age: 34

I feel like at times I have to beg my boyfriend for attention and reassurance?

Sometimes I feel like I have to beg my boyfriend for a compliment, or for his time, or reassurance.. it makes me feel insecure. I know it should and always first should come from within and I am always reminding myself of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I cry so much when I feel like I miss my online friend and want to be close to him?

Distance is killing me, he is having rough time now its hurting me so much i wish i can support him I don't know how and what to do, he was there for me when i had nobody. We had ups and downs but we always communicated ,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will I look dumb and immature if I delete him from social media?

He ignored my message. That’s it. He was treating me fine before but as soon as I asked him for a few days to take a break (I had depression) he just liked my comment. When I came back and told him “I miss you” he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he act like he’s in love with me on the phone but in person he barely even talks to me?

met this guy on instagram, we started talking and i enjoyed chatting with him. he had already made lots of promises like he’d never hurt me or lie to me, stuff like that. he was quite desperate for a relationship since he...

melaniegonza

Xper 3 Age: 18

My boyfriend and the father of our child broke up with me out of anger. I'm about to have the baby. How do I cope with/deal with this?

My boyfriend/the father of my child (who I will be welcoming REALLY soon) decided to break up with me. It was a very rash, sudden decision out of anger. He got mad at me over something relatively small, totally blew up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I give my (ex) boyfriend a chance?

Me and my boyfriend (20 and 21) had been toghether for 6 months. We rushed into a relationship and shit became bad with lots of miscommunication and misunderstandings. He meant good for me but his methods were real bad....

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Why do men chase you until they get you, and then leave?

So this is a genuine question. I’ve only ever been in one relationship, and we split 4/5 years ago. I thought I loved him, until I met this new guy soon after. We started off as friends but there was this intense...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Education & Career

UTK vs NYU vs Tufts?

So I am about to FINALLY graduate from undergrad (yay!) and have been applying to graduate school. My degree is in Cyber Engineering and I would like to try and focus on that but am also happy to branch out if it will...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy block me for no reason?

He came and talk to me making me feel special he said he add me on but he canceled it cause I saw he add me and when I check there was no… request 😕 why lie to me then I found his account under a page that he likes I add...

Anonymous

(25-29)