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My (23F) ex (28M) and I recently got back into contact. He was my first boyfriend right out of high school. He is part of a program where he has to make amends. He admitted he tried to get me pregnant on purpose on many occasions. We grew up in the same neighborhood, we lived in a poor majority Latino area were single motherhood is the norm. He owns a good amount of real estates which he got paid in cash when we were together. He said he just wanted to have an "heir" to inherit all his assets once he was gone but didn't want to be a father or pay child support. I thought to myself that's horrible, looking back I had a lot of close calls with him. Should I forgive him?

He (43 M) doesn't want to admit that he really messed up greatly so I'm writing on his behalf. He had an affair lasting for nearly a year, his wife found out about it. That's not all though.

He had an affair with the wife's best friend from her college years and the woman still got pregnant at the age of 41. They only have a son that's already in his first year of college, not a minor anymore. His wife (my soon to be ex SIL) has started the divorce process. She has all the evidence of both the affair and the product of it.

He really wishes to work it out but my SIL refuses to. She wants him out. In this case, he deserves what's coming for him right?