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I just moved in with my fiancé and his grandma. I’ve only been here for 2 whole weeks and it already feels like my relationship is falling apart. We don’t spend any time together except when we go on walks (which isn’t everyday) & when we went to brunch one time. Other than that he’s either working or answering to his grandma’s beck and call.

We don’t sleep in the same bed, or room. I have a whole level of the house to myself. I’m lonely and honestly not working is bothering me. I’m job searching for every day because I’m use to working and contributing.

We have no personal space or time together. She calls him for almost everything (she can’t do much since she’s on oxygen). I get it and I understand but some stuff is honestly ridiculous. I’ve been trying to do my part. Keeping areas clean at least try because the min. I clean it gets messed up not too long after.

What do I do? I feel like him and I need to speak with her about it but I don’t want her feeling like we’re being rude when I’m the new comer and trying to change stuff.