Search Results: initiating sex

What situation would make you reject having sex with your partner?

So, recently was our 5 years and 5 months anniversary ( we agreed to celebrate it as we missed the chance to celebrate the 5 years one ) and he said will make a nice day for us. In that evening it happend that we had an...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever lost attraction for you partner? How did you build it back? Or when did you know it was unrepairable?

I'm steadily losing attraction to my girlfriend. She very rarely initiates sex maybe once a week, which has lead me to initiate less. I've tried things on my part being more romantic, going out on more dates, showing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I like him or am I just lonely?

So i've been chatting on a sex chat site and got to know this guy who's in the same country and happens to be in the same line of work. Hence, we hit it off cause we have lots in common to talk about. I also recently...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend (26) not taking initiative what should I (24) do?

Me (24) and my boyfriend (26) have been together for almost 5 years. We’re basically best friends and have been inseparable since the beginning. But lately I feel like he hasn’t been taking initiative to keep our flame...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did I sleep with him too soon?

I’ve known this guy since high school (about 7 years) he had a really big crush on me but thought I was out of his league then so we didn’t date. Not gonna lie I wasn’t interested in him then. last year in the summer we...

raeaskstuff

Xper 3 Age: 24

Why did he unfollow me out of the blue? Also, Do you guys discuss everything with your friiends just like us girls do?

There’s this guy. He started liking my posts and stories and we started talking. He would compliment me but he never openly said he is into me. Then he suggested we grab some coffee. I went to his place for a burger...

Zavarakatranemia

Xper 3 Age: 37

Should I trust my gut feeling or is my anxiety turning me into a person I dont want to be?

I have gut feeling that won't go away about a girl I've been dating for a few months. It started on the first date.. we hit it off pretty quickly and it was a really good date but when i wanted to go home she was trying...

Bob2024

Xper 1 Age: 41

Should I initiate "the talk"?

We were coworkers for 2 years. At the beginning of last year we started a situationship (not my choice). Anyway... this thing went on and off for the entire last year, till I've found out that he was texting another chick...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy I've gone on dates with, also likes me, but hasn't mentioned consideration of being in a relationship?

I've gone on 4 dates with a guy. I like his qualities and personality. We have kissed passionately but I told him that I would not have sex with a guy until I'm in a relationship with him. He respected that, but I feel...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I don't get him at all. He is always sleepy... always tired. Has his routine and rarely goes out of his way to do something. Can this change?

We used to be coworkers. Not anymore. He invites me for lunch, but then hurries up to come home and basically "do nothing" except gym and meet with his friends. He texts me at night sometimes. Says he is always tired. I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Why couldn’t he perform?

My boyfriend has been acting a bit cocky lately has been excluding me from family events, also didn’t invite me to watch the Super Bowl until I asked him if we were going to watch it together. Last night I wanted to have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is third date the "universal" making out or sex date in guys' minds?

Is third date the "universal" making out or sex date for guys on the social timeline? I'm asking about this because I've read that someone had sex with a guy on third date. My ex initiated and we made out on third...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He didn't even have sex with me, what was his aim?

Okay... this coworker of mine and I have become close friends... he played some mind games at the beginning which in my opinion led to me falling hard for him. Anyway... he and I made out, kissed, touched, behaved like a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy I’ve been talking to says “(my name), we’re still okay? Is he trying to get me hooked or does he genuinely likes me?

Background: We started hooking up in January 2023, but we originally met in 2022 on December 20 something. He lives in Austin and I live in El Paso, TX. We made sure it was just sex, no strings attached. After agreeing,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I wrong for not sleeping with my wife?

my wife has had depression issues and stuff in the past and she’s now on zoloft and when she started taking it after a few weeks of her taking the meds she approached me and told me she no longer enjoys having sex with me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What am I doing wrong?

single for 3 years. Had many first dates, met many men, and have never found myself “dating” someone. Every guy I like, only sees me as fun and is either newly out of a relationship and “isn’t ready” or just isn’t...

Jam888

Xper 3 Age: 44