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The question says it all why is it the opposite sex of the respective skin colour not considered attractive. Hell I even met a bisexual woman who is attracted to dark skinned men but when it comes to women she wants them pale. Even when they are undesirable pale men and dark skinned don't find each other attractive.
So the notion of opposites attracts only works on pale women and dark skinned women

Ok I know people can't control as to what or who they find attractive I'm not going to attack anyone who gives an honest opinion.

But if you feel the above question is true and can't be changed how can one overcome such situation and keep his/her confidence intact especially pale men (even when dark skin is considered unattractive on a woman , remember they are woman and woman have an easier time of finding a man )

So in the end do you agree
For men - darker the man the better looking he is

For women - paler the woman the better looking she is