Search Results: using friend to meet people

Most of the people on my social media are acquaintances or family, plus some randos (on IG). On FB, it’s a lot of people I went to hs & middle school with. I tend to get more likes on IG but this weekend was a shocker. I went to this event where I met a bunch of celebs & most of the people that liked my posts were strangers (I’m usually private but go public when I meet celebs to tag them in my posts with the slight chance they’ll acknowledge it). When I first met this famous group last yr a lot of followers that I actually knew liked my post but I mean this weekend I met a bunch of famous people & they saw my stories but no one acknowledged my posts except the people that saw it bc I tagged the celeb/used a few hashtags. You’re wondering how this relates to anxiety but it does make me anxious & I don’t want to come across as desperate for attention. I really don’t have a lot of followers compared to most of the people on my friends list, I’ve always felt kind of invisible in that sense. Never get the “dms” from guys like other women have, I’m told I’m attractive & this post sounds superficial but does anyone relate?

As example someone who is involved with a decent woman or man leading them along for sex by saying all the "right" words but which they honestly don't mean.

I am just wondering because a friend of mine just had an issue with her boyfriend. Now she is the softest, sweetest person you'll meet a true heart of gold. Not a pushover but she wants to help, etc., etc. And it's something a LOT of people - friends, colleagues, etc. - have warned her about how bluntly people without her best intentions at heart will use/abuse her.

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Anyway she asked to meet at his house 2 weeks from X date and was told no, maybe a couple of weeks.

Now ever since they're last meet up, instead, he has constantly brought up meeting up at airbnbs. Yes the last time that they met up they did this & had a good time.

But there's something sleazy / cheap about meeting at an airbnb - like a side fling, a hookup.

And that's something she brought up tonight. That airbnb = hookup, what when no to home.

Automatically he gets defensive & offended by the implication.

But the thing is, when she asked to meet at his house like a proper girlfriend / boyfriend relationship it was no.

But for meeting at an airbnb - like said a sleasy / cheap side piece / fling - he's constantly bringing it up, begin gunho about it.