Search Results: want more than friends with benefits

Friends with benefits said I'm girlfriend material?

This is a new friends with benefits. We haven't slept together much/long right now. We both said in the beginning we were just looking for a friends with benefits arrangement. He said he wasn't looking for or wanting a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get out of friend zone?

A guy and I have been hanging out and hooking up for months. We both agreed that it is more than friends with benefits but didn’t want anything serious. I told him a caught feelings, he told me he did too earlier but...

Heygirlhey1234

Xper 5 Age: 32

What should I do :( ?

I've been hooking up with this guy who I work with and we told each other that we had feelings for one another. I'm 26 && he's 30, sometimes he will come over and all we do is just talk and cuddle. When I ask him does he...

Floridianmamaaa

Xper 3 Age: 30

Ex friends with benefits asking me if I still like him?

So I used to go out just as friends with benefits with a guy and now he is my friend only. He's asking me if I still like him, but the thing is, I have another pseudo/quasi relationship sort of similar to friends with...

girlthatasks

Xper 2 Age: 25

I asked him to be friends with benefits, and he got mad, why?

I’ve had a friend at work for 8 years. He flirted with me when we first became friends, and I shut it down back then. He is 54, I’m 44. Everything was fine, until recently when I’ve started to like him as a little more...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do I tell my friend that it’s time to move out?

My friend has been living with me for 3 months and I have been doing everything to make her feel at home. But I work most of the time so I rent a small apartment because I don’t spend much time there, only come home at...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Why are guys so confusing sometimes?

So there’s this guy that I’m talking to me and him we’re talking a few months ago and he lead me on and eventually went ghost and one day I was like bro wtf can u tell me what happened like I’ll leave you alone after and...

Victoria7869

Xper 4 Age: 26

I’ve liked the same guy for 5 years and can’t tell how he really feels; should I just give up?

I’ve liked the same guy since 2018. We became friends in high school and then after about a year started a friends with benefits relationship that lasted for a little over 2 years. We haven’t hooked up in a little over a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If we’re supposed to be friends with benefits why is he telling me how I can improve and make things better between us?

Listening is a big thing for him and I feel like he cares more than he lets on. I feel like if I were a straight hookup or that’s all he sees me as he wouldn’t be telling me stuff like that. It’s to the point where he...

sd1223

Yoda Age: 29

Does my ex wants me back or not?

My ex and I broke up 6 months ago. We continued to text and meet up for our pet, but there were two occasions that I initiated a no-contact and I told him I needed to move on from this relationship. He always break the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How long is too long for friends with benefits?

It’s been almost 2 1/2 years with mine (on and off) with the longest hiatus being 2 months. We’ve ended things twice, and this is our 3rd rodeo. I call us friends with benefits but we’re technically much more than that,...

Peaceandlove89

Xper 4 Age: 37

Does he want straight sex or a romantic relationship?

We both have Asperger’s, so I’m only slightly more socially aware than he is. After telling Ben I loved him but it wouldn’t work out, Ben scared me for a year by chasing me through Facebook and in person. I closed the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

The universe brought us back together, could it be meant to be?

Long story short, I used to have a thing with this guy about three years ago. We spoke on and off for months and it was basically just friends with benefits. Fast forward to today and we reconnected on a dating app. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Promises and no delivery, what should I do?

So I've been seeing this guy for a month, before we were friends with benefits and then I got feelings so we are trying things out. The thing is that, since we have taken dating seriously, we don't have sex. I've always...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

Why do I always feel so stressed out, and tired all the time? I want to live my life better and try something different? I don't know what to do?

I’m in college so it is normal to feel tired and stressed out and stuff. But I still have friends who are handling things a lot better than I am. They’re learning languages as a hobby, working jobs on the side, going to...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 26

Why am I not happy when i’m around my boyfriend?

i’ve notice a few times out of the week that i am unhappy being around my boyfriend. we are together for 9 years and it hasn’t always been easy. he always hung out with his friends more than he hung out with me, he drank...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The continuing weird discussion about masculinity. . .

Years ago, when I first joined GaG, I wanted to talk about relationships. I had hopes this was a place where I could find meaningful discussions on the issues men and women have with forming meaningful bonds. I was and...

RolandCuthbert

Editor Age: 54

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