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Both involved a cruel person stealing someone's market value. Men and women are obviously valued differently. When it comes to love and relationships or marriage, what's worse?

- A man that promises the world and purposely wastes the woman's time and years. Then when she gets to a certain age, she gets ditched for someone younger. Not only she doesn't get those years back but she's depressed about possibly not being able to have kids anymore. The guy destroyed her years and her motherhood. We are afterall valued for our youth and fertility. Men don't care too much about our careers.

- A golddigger makes it harder for the rest of us to find a good family-oriented man. She uses him with charm but somehow he doesn't realize what she really is like. She got what she wanted and then wants to ditch him for no reason (just that she got bored, that's it), just for monetary incentive. She gets half of what poor man's hard work, destroying his market value he worked hard for.

I really sympathize with both cases. No one deserves getting their market value destroyed by cruel narcissists. Though personally I think the first case is worse. Money can eventually be earned back even if it takes years or longer. However, once we can't have babies anymore, that's not ever gained back, literally never. If our motherhood is taken away, it's forever gone. Money isn't forever gone.

Just as in real world dating, I feel that a majority of the people being catfished are ignoring MAJOR red flags in these "relationships". Like how can it be a year later and they never want to meet, never send you pictures of things happening currently, can't seem to ever FaceTime or call you, only message when they contact you, only have pictures from 5 years ago, they keep asking you for money...I mean really??? I can understand maybe being fooled by one quick picture and thinking someone is real, and then you discover they're not with a Google search, but when I hear it's 3 years later and they just found out they were being catfished, I have to think one is just kind of naive and ignoring the signs.