Search Results: how to get him to stay

How do I get my ex to start seeing me as a potential girlfriend?

Hi, I need advice. I (21F) dated a guy (21M) in 2023 for five months. We were exclusive, met each other’s friends and family, and he even called me “his woman,” but he never made it official. He started as a rebound...

lovelylia

Xper 6 Age: 25

I Want Something Serious with My Ex, But I’m Confused?

lovelylia

Xper 6 Age: 25

My boyfriend has had a p*rn addiction for around 10 years. can any men give me some advice on how to go about this?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now. His p*rn addiction is something that he told me only half way into the relationship as we started having problems in the bedroom. He would not last long in the bedroom...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why is it okay for woman to be sexist?

Often times woman will say things about men that’s just normal for them to say and I’ve heard these things come out of multiple woman yet I never see it addressed. What even crazier is how skewed the narrative is in...

MLGbreezy

Yoda Age: 27

Am I in the wrong for being upset?

So I live with my mom and I’m pregnant. My brother came for a visit with a car part for my mom’s car with his dog. I work from home and my mom wants it to be quiet because of the neighbours. So I had to stay in my room so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He says he needs hot and erotism but I am only cute, should I stay?

So basically my very long term boyfriend says I'm attractive and cute but I'm not hot or sexy and that's what's lacking our whole relationship. The thing that gets me is that we've had 4 children together and our sex...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why guy prefer to be single for life? And how to convince him to date me?

So this guy (40m) say that he want to stay single. So far what I know is that he only dating once 10 years ago for 3 years. I try to approach and get close to him, but it seems impossible. Like his wall is so tall and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

As a stay at home Dad, am I out of line here?

So for the price of cleaning the house, cooking all meals, taking care of the kids, as well as everything else a man usually does... I was to get 500$ every 2 weeks. Keep in mind I dick her down like no other as well. I'm...

D_Bone_Steak

Master Age: 44

Kept men: the opposite of a gold digger?

Now this is a new concept to me and we’re not talking about a stay at home dad no we’re saying a guy that is got a sugar mama and she supplies he doesn’t do any work no handyman no nothing I’m so used to the idea of a...

Justneedtokno

Guru Age: 31

Is 25 min a long trip to you to get someone?

At the time I don’t have a car and I uber most places or use public transport if it’s an easy trip. I’m dating a man that lives 25 min away from me and I feel bad when he comes to get me for dates and takes me home. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

To the cheaters that got a second chance, did you stay loyal or did you cheat again?

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

How do I handle being the scapegoat daughter of a narcissistic mom emotionally and mentally?

I'm 19 years old and still very much rely on my parents for support. I have been trying to find ways to deal with it daily but it still affects me so much no matter how much i try to brush it off. I live under the same...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is a woman judged if she refuses to wait years for a man to commit but also judged if she waited too much?

If a woman in her mid 20's (24-26 years old) leaves a relationship on the 1st or 2nd year because she refuses to wait 5-8 years for him to want a family and commit to her, she's viewed as inconsiderate, impatient, pushy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you blame me for not wanting to take a taxi?

So my brother and I bought mobile home in 2017. We didn't get along very well so I moved into my mom's after about a year of living in the mobile home with my brother. He moved out a couple of months ago, so my aunt and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Have you ever had a conversation, or participated in a conversation with someone and make them have an Ah Ha moment?

Over the holidays my wife and her sister were having a conversation. A little back story, She is older than my wife by 5 years. my wife is 32, she is 37. This older sister has always looked down on my wife because she is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My mom and brothers have been living in my apartment for over a month and I’m about to lose my shit. Advice?

My mom has been financially unstable my entire life. My siblings (she has six kids by five different men) and I grew up on welfare and moving from place to place because she was constantly getting evicted....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

He left me a year ago but we still talk like lovers. What should I do and also can you help me prepare a message to send him on my behalf?

We were together for years at online, we never met. we had ldr online relationship for some years. but for a year he says we are only friends. he doesn't accept me as his girlfriend. at first i really begged him to stay...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have an ugly side about myself and it seems like my partner doesn’t want to stay?

So i guess there's an ugly side about me i get angry and use a hurtful tone and some language with others without realizing it. so i had an argument with my partner and i used a hurtful tone cause i was feeling emotional...

Anonymous

(30-35)