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Woman Dies After Falling from Cruise Ship

Seems to always be women. I guess it would be a good way to end a relationship and make it look like some kind of accident to get out of paying alimony. What do you think?

So I was kicked out of a group for exposing a man and people felt that I was “bitter” and called me “crazy” for speaking my truth on this man. It was a very invalidating experience.

Let me be clear on why I’m exposing him…

1. He did not respect my boundaries when it came to having sex and ended trying to use manipulation. I made it clear to him before we exchanged numbers that I wasn’t in a space to have sex or be in a relationship. He kind of wanted to know why etc and he wasn’t pushy.. but he said things he felt I NEEDED to hear… and at first I’m thinking wow maybe he is genuine and understanding. Looking back it was hard to see his “coercive behavior…” to get what he wanted and wanted to gain my trust. Even saying how can I make you feel safe

2. Subtle changes in behavior after telling him that I wanted to take things slow with him and gaslighting.. I did end up liking him and when I said that… that’s when it started taking hours for him to respond and then it went to days… only to get a “sorry really busy”…. But it kept happening and I confronted him and he tried to say that I needed to “heal”….. but it was strange behavior coming from a man who was trying to make me feel “safe” initially…

3. Disrespect… (devalue/discard) everything was cool on the date at first but then he became disrespectful and rude… he started asking when I last had sex, dildos, negging behavior and some insults.

4. Not being honest about his real name even on the date.. I asked him if “Craig” was his real name and he said yes… I get you want to protect yourself but he really did not want to tell me his name and seemed annoyed when I asked. It was very fishy

5. After the “date” i tried finding a “gf”…. Bc i felt like he was talking to someone.. he has no social media presence and keeps things private

6. He is possibly bisexual or closeted based on some things I found

My boyfriend went over to his parents house last minute for dinner - I didn’t go cuz I was busy with job related stuff (I work from home).

so my boyfriends sister in law was asking him financial questions about me and if I’m looking for work outside the home…. then she asks him if he’s happy in this relationship with me…then my bfs mom told her off to stop talking about me and my boyfriend also told her off as well and to mind her own business…

is she jealous of us or trying to break us apart? Why was my bfs sister in law asking personal questions about me behind my back?

also right from day 1 my bfs brother has been in our business all the time and kept asking me to go move in with my boyfriend ( his younger brother)