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At the end of a first date, if he thinks you aren't a good match, how/when do you want him to tell you? Guys, how do you tell her?

I have had at least 75 first dates as a result of online dating, and a few were horrible (pictures not current, lied about age, etc.) Most of them weren't that awful, but we just weren't a good match. When I got some...
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I have had at least 75 first dates as a result of online dating, and a few were horrible (pictures not current, lied about age, etc.) Most of them weren't that awful, but we just Show More
The guy can just never call the girl and she'll get the message
The guy can call her a few days later and tell her in a phone call
The guy can send her a text message a few days later
The guy can send her a text right after the date, like when she is on her way home
The guy can tell her face-to-face at the end of the first date
They should discuss this possibility in advance and follow whatever plan they agreed to
Something else I'll explain in a comment
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Your phone isn't the enemy; it's YOU

There is an essential aspect of communications that young people overlook because of a horrible assumption that they make. Most young people looking for a partner rely on texting to communicate and that can be a fatal...
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Girl isn’t replying to texts but seeks me out IRL?

Met a girl through a mutual friend in college then later matched on a dating app. She asked me out on a date after finals, and we decided to meet in college when we both have free time. There are many green flags: 1....
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Why does a guy play childish ‘make her jealous’ games when he chooses another girl over you?

I mean he liked and flirted with us both. He thought I rejected him many months previously as I didn’t realise him asking me out was a date per se. He started dating this other girl and even still sent mixed signals for...
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He had ghosted me, came back, I ghosted him, he came back and now he's ghosting me?

I met this guy a few months back. He would text me everyday but was flakey when it came to going on dates. I saw him once and we discussed a second date which he ended up canceling the last minute. Due to this I stopped...
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I just met a guy and he wants to meet my parents?

Today was our official second date and the day prior today was our first date. I received a text today asking if he could meet my parents. Is he serious about me? What would you guys do in this situation?
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If a girl doesn’t set a date, is she not interested?

So went on two dates with this girl, second ended in a kiss. messaged her to set up a date, she said she is probably free next week but she will find out Sunday as her manager will let her know when she’s working. we got...
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If a girl I’m dating says she is probably free next week, is that a soft rejection?

So I’ve been on two dates with a girl I met at work. both times when asking for the date she worked around my schedule as she isn’t a busy person. I asked her for a second date : “are you free anytime next week by the...
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Why do I keep thinking/dreaming about this woman I went on 1 date with and texted for a few weeks?

Back in late November and through a solid amount of December of last year, I started talking to this one woman off Facebook Dating. We seemed to have a lot in common, we went on one date and she agreed to a second one,...
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Was this a subtle rejection or a genuine excuse?

To give a little back story, she told me she’s lesbian and thinks I’m physically attractive. She doesn’t want to date and we only communicate when we want to meet up. We hung out a couple of times and hooked up on the...
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Being ghosted after really good dates? This one dating experience really struck me and I can't stop thinking about it?

Hi all, I (24) met this girl (23) through a dating app, Bumble, we started texting and she asked me out after some time, we went on our first date for a coffee and it went well and we kissed at the end of the date. She...
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He just shuts down after sex?

I met someone and we're seeing each other. We've been on 3 dates so far. On our second date, everything was fantastic until we finished with sex. He just fell asleep on the couch like right away. I hoped there would be...
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He canceled our second date last minute? now I'm struggling what to do?

So, two days ago we planned to have our date. unfortunately, last minute, when I arrived there he said he couldn't make it ( I think he had family issues) I told him I came that way just for him and he should at least...
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What would you do if your best friend looked up Boyfriend without asking?

I have known my boyfriend since last April we started off as friends and started dating in October. My best friend has been so damaged that she trusts no guy her friend's date. She keeps telling me to watch out for red...
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Should I give him a second chance?

So recently started dating this guy (48) we had 3 good dates. His birthday was on VD anyways after celebrating he called me a “sexy Bitch” while walking in public, well that spoiled the night and we went opposite ways.....
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What do you think about a guy asking a girl to pay for a date?

so there's a guy I matched with on hinge who I went on 2 dates with. He planned & paid for the first date which I expected. However, for our second date, he chose the time & place again & instructed me to meet him where...
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Does he like me or is he just friendly?

My coworker who I have been attracted to since I met him have a weird dynamic. We always are flirting and teasing each other at work.. yet I can't tell how he feels really. We both talk about the people we go on dates...
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Have you experienced any new symptoms or side effects since having the covid vaccine?

Hi all, I'm currently looking into doing research about the long term effects of the covid mRNA vaccine and am asking if anyone has experienced any symptoms since getting their vaccine? I'm particularly interested in...
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Hi all, I'm currently looking into doing research about the long term effects of the covid mRNA vaccine and am asking if anyone has experienced any symptoms since getting their Show More
I had the vaccine, I feel fine
I had the vaccine, I have symptoms
I didn't get the vaccine
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Second date with online match?

went on a second date recently with a woman and it doesn’t look like a third is lined up. I’m Curious to know if others have gone through this and maybe where it went wrong? the first date went great, lots of flirting...
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Is it weird for a man not to pay for things on a date etc?

I do not in anyway shape or form expect a man to pay for me, BUT my friends are making it seem like he should be so I just wanted to see what others thought. We haven’t even been dating very long. Only since the end of...
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