I don't necessarily worry about it being 50/50, but, when I was dating, I probably paid about as much as the guys I went out with. There were dates that I paid for the whole thing, dates my boyfriend paid for the whole thing and times where one of paid for dinner and the other paid for tickets to a show, sports event or concert.
This isn't the old days where women sat home waiting to be found by some guy who would marry her and take care of her.
I have (and had) a very good paying job... no reason why I shouldn't pay for some of the cost of dating.
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You’re the type of lady men want. While most men will pay it’s the thought that counts. But a girl who expects that a man should pay is full of shit. She wants to be traditional but guarantee you she isn’t even a virgin. Some even have kids w out marriage but still want a traditional man lol ok but you can get a traditional man if you aren’t traditional yourself. If it works out for you both that way that’s fine. What works for some doesn’t always work for others. My girl would do the same, we’re still together after 13 years. Consider this. How many of your girlfriends actually have a man they’ve been w for a long time? Now if a number of them don’t have a man than I wouldn’t be listening to their advice. You paid for one thing, he paid for another.
It is weird to me but I am a traditionalist.
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Do what works for you two. If its absurdly one sided in who pays then it could be an issue depending on what you both expect from the relationship.
My respect for you. You're the good one. Your friends are low profile gold diggers. 50/50 is good. It doesn't even have to be 50/50 on point. Variation is okay. But ultimately your thought process about this matter counts, which i praise.
It depends because I went on a date and paid for the food she didn’t pay for anything and turned out to be a horrible cow so I think keep is sweet you should pay for your own food and drink
Expecting a grown woman to be prepared to pay for herself isn't weird.
Keep it 50/50 so he or she will not think that you owe them sex for Dinner xp
I always pay n i love spending money on girls
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