Second date with online match?

[charlie_moeller]

went on a second date recently with a woman and it doesn’t look like a third is lined up. I’m Curious to know if others have gone through this and maybe where it went wrong?

the first date went great, lots of flirting laughing, we kissed twice and held hands on the way out of the venue.

On the second date. It was more brief, she received a call half way through from her room mate asking for a spare key which cut it short.

the vibe seemed good though. She showed interest by resting her head on my lap, grabbing my hand, making out, flirting, etc.

it ended with us kissing at the train station and her initiating texts when she got home. I asked to line up a third date at my house (I’d just moved into a new home by the sea and wanted to show her and cook dinner)

she said it’s likely next week wouldn’t work due to work issues but would let me know. I didn’t hear back for a few days so reached out. She reconfirmed it didn’t work and said let’s meet the week after.

there was no suggestion on what day so I left it to her to reach out to me with this but didn’t hear anything since then.

[OlderAndWiser]

"she received a call half way through from her room mate asking for a spare key" It is posible that this was a legitimate call but it really sounds lke a pre-planned rescue call. She asks her friend to call at a certain time, and then she tells you she must leave for that reason but the real reason is that she wanted to cut the date short. I don't know what happened in the conversation before she received the call, but something that was sad or did triggered her to bail out on you.

[charlie_moeller]

Cheers for the comment here. After she received the call the date escalated with all the positive things I mentioned above (kissing, flirting, touching, etc) and still lasted for a few hrs longer she didn’t leave straight after which is confusing. I would of thought if she was looking for an exit none of that would of happened and her body language would of showed negatively.

Straight after the date she texted first re mentioning her room mate on the key and then mentioned we should see each other the week after.

Hard to gauge

[Guy13]

You never invite a woman to your house. You talk about needing a woman's touch, your lack of fashion and coordinating, and the Like. She will hint herself into your home. At best you are at Zero... staring date now.