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Women are notorious for sending mixed messages and “shit testing” men. They say something is okay when it really isn’t. They want to see if the guy is self controlled and wise enough to pass the test.

However there are a few scenarios men are guilty of this as well. I can think of only two scenarios where men unfairly “shit test” women.

Shit Test #1: He pressures her to have sex early. She gives it up and he then later loses respect for her.

A lot of men judge women for being promiscuous/easy. If she initiating random sex with lots of guys that’s one thing. But if a guy pressures her to do it and she gives in (and enjoys it) then he really has no right to judge her. It was all his idea.

Yet there are some men who do this and frankly it’s a double standard bs. I actually stayed in long term relationships with all three of my past gfs despite having sex with all on them within 3 dates. One ex girlfriend said she would of done it on our first date (we did on the second) if I initiated. But I am actually glad I didn’t.

Shit Test #2: Telling her you don’t mind if she hangs out and talks (a lot) with other guys including exes. However when she does the man gets angry/jealous.

Jealousy is a tricky bastard. On one end a very controlling man is extremely insecure. He gets pissed off if another guy looks to long at his girlfriend or tries to chat with her (often the other guy doesn’t know she’s taken). It can actually be a compliment when other guys check out your girlfriend/wife JUST as long they are respectful about it. But when they cross a line it deserves an ass kicking.

On the flip side some guys seemingly don’t mind at all of their girlfriend/wife hang out with other guys and even do more with them. It’s like they are somehow demonstrating they aren’t controlled by jealousy.

But the truth is some guys “say” it’s alright when deep down they are not at all okay with it. It’s there way of “testing” their girlfriend/wife to make sure they really love them.

Examples:

Hot guy: 6'2 210 lbs. Masculine face and deep voice. He is very traditionally masculine and seductive. He never shows his emotions and is very serious in his daily life. But can be flirtatious and playful when out on a date. He is into sports, cars, boating and having sex. He keeps a rotation of women around to expand his options. But he is financially wealthy, and can provide you with a secure and exciting life. Has a broad social network. If he chooses to commit to you , he will make a loving and committed father and husband.

Cute guy: (the boy nextdoor type)

5'8 185 lbs. Cute, soft facial features. Brown eyes and long dark brown hair. Goofy and playful, kind and open with his emotions. he's not rich but takes pride in doing good work. Passionate and attentive lover. Animal lover. He loves cooking and baking for other people. He also enjoys an active lifestyle of horseback riding, hiking, biking and swimming. He loves coffee shops and video games.

If you don't understand what I am saying, what I am getting at here we all tend to have motivation whenever we are engaging in a hobby, or designing our homes or the type of style you want to wear. There are some people who mostly do these things because they actually have an interest in doing them despite knowing others doesn't think it looks good on them but that doesn't usually stop them from doing them.

While there are others who do want to appeal completely attractive to others especially for the opposite sex, so they do a ton of research and asking around to find out which hobbies, career, and clothing are considered the most beautiful for others. Sure these people might be putting to much pressure on appealing good but hey if beauty was either we all would be doing it and it wouldn't be that beautiful anymore. So ladies and gentlemen my question is when you trying to live your life do you usually do it because it something that you enjoy doing or because it considered the most attractive in terms of your specific gender? Me personally I would sometimes try to ask about certain things that might appeal attractive towards women but for majority of the time I just rather do or wear something because it's something I actually want to do. Like one thing I definitely wouldn't mind wearing is leather pants and a leather jacket, I know most people might not consider this to overly masculine but who cares I just really love fashion. But that is me what about you boys and girls how do you want to live your lives? by the way! The pictures doesn't have to do with the question but I am a black man who loves fashion and with the white girl usually women in bikini looks hot oh wait I guess it actually does relate with this question after all. 🤣🤣 But back on topic so which one is it ladies and gentlemen!

Sometimes I think that the internet can be a very divisive place.
I feel like men and women are meant to interact with each other in person in a more natural way. I feel like going online and reading the rants of angry individuals, or every little thought of the opposite sex is sometimes unhealthy.
I know that I start to feel refreshed when I take a break from it. I start to see women in a less threatening way, and I start to feel the way I'm supposed to feel about them without any animosity. I start to forget all of the negative things online, and I start to enjoy women in the moment again.