Search Results: ex still wants me

Anyone else terrified of being “second choice” to the people you love?

Bit of a vent, bit of a question. I’ve had a lot of friendships fade over the years — especially close female friends — because they get into relationships and slowly phase me out. No drama, no fights, just… gone. It’s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my ex obsessively watching my stories but still not reaching out?

My ex and I have been no contact since September 2024, when he told me he was dating someone else. I blocked him for 3 months, unblocked in February 2025, and he viewed one of my Instagram stories, then nothing for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would an ex still be showing my pictures to his coworkers?

My ex broke up with me 7 weeks ago over over a very petty issue. I was devastated because I thought he was the LOML and this came out of the blue. He called me to see how I'm doing and told me he started a new job and was...

RainbowQueen1

Xper 6 Age: 36

What would you do if your best friend of 10 years suddenly want to be friends with your ex boyfriend that you were together with for 1 year last year?

Let's call my ex boyfriend for LUKE Yesterday me and my best friend were texting about work and she suddenly texten this👇, but I tried to play it cool= She= By the way, would it be okay if I come in contacted...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Let's call my ex boyfriend for LUKE Yesterday me and my best friend were texting about work and she suddenly texten this👇, but I tried to play it cool= She= By the way, would

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Would You Rather Stalk Your Ex Or Sleep Around After Breakup?

allow me to stereotype a little here. some people, mostly men and a few women, get rebound to prove to themselves they're still desirable, the world still wants them. on the other hand, mostly women and a few men, try to...

fonduegirl

Guru Age: 25

Health & Fitness

How should I address my friend when I found out they don’t want me rehashing a situation?

My friend knows about an ex coworker whom I had for 1 yr last yr. This ex coworker was an older white woman who talked about her money privileges, say things like I don’t want to eat what you people eat (we live in a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I date a best friends Ex?

Me an my friend are not as close anymore. We are friends but don’t see eachother a lot or speak a lot. She dated this guy about 6 years ago when we were younger. They never got to the relationship stage but were exclusive...

Anonymous

(25-29)

“you deserve better”?

I dated my ex for a year before we ended, he’s a pretty insecure person & has messed up a lot with me in the past & present day. He tried to make a lot of things better but it’s really hard to move forward because the...

Sophia2795

Xper 5 Age: 30

My ex dumped me and is now in a relationship with my friend. Both of them are telling me that I’m wrong for feeling hurt. Am I the bad guy here?

A bit of history about them. My ex and I dated for a little under a year. He’s from Ireland and came to this country at age 28. He was living at home with his mother, not working or helping her out (that’s what he told...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I have feelings for an evil man help me?

About 5 months ago I was going out with this guy for a month and a bit. He wanted to see me everyday. We did fun dates together and he made it seem like he wanted to date me and get into a relationship. He was going on a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, My ex wants to go swimming with me?

My ex and I have been friends for a long time and have been through a lot. We even have lived together as roommates before I moved out and we got together a few years later. We’ve been broken up for 2 months. The reason...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to create trust in a relationship with shaky foundation?

When I started a relationship on shaky foundation. I started dating my actual boyfriend when I was still with my ex but avoided to meet my ex, and tried to make him break up with me as I didn't have the courage to be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He ghosted me, went back to his toxic ex, and nearly 2 years later I still feel stuck. How do I move on?

I’m 19F, about to start my second year of college, but I’ve been emotionally stuck since high school. In junior year, a guy I liked was too shy to ask for my number, so he got it through a friend. We clicked quickly, but...

EllieT05

Xper 1 Age: 20

Girl's Behavior

Am I doing the right thing with her?

There's this lady I started talking to on Facebook Dating in December last year. She says she's been in bad relationships and doesn't want to date right now. I met her once in person for Starbucks around the time we...

tstarr17

Xper 6 Age: 33

Dating

Girls, fit academic lesbian 29 still single. how do I diagnose WHY?

I cannot tell what MATTERS anymore as contributing factors for why I'm still single. facts: 1. I'm a retired athlete who still has a bfp of 20%. 2. I am an ex [petite] model who left the industry to pursue my education....

pollysocket

Xper 2 Age: 29

Do guys regret fumbling a girl if they had been trying to get her for a while?

Basically me and this guy at my work had been flirting for about 6/7 months. Nothing happened when i worked there, as he was my manager so i felt a bit cautious He would always ask if I was single/ how my dating life was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you cope with non-monogamy?

Hi all, I’ve just been feeling up and down the past 2 weeks because of this new discovery. My boyfriend was caught emotional cheating with his ex last year, we moved past it and worked it out. But then he was caught again...

Anonymous

(18-24)