Search Results: get my boyfriend to forgive me

I hurt my boyfriend to feel validated. its getting worse and I dont know how to change it?

A while ago we had an argument (a big one). He did something that hurt me a lot. I still love him so i couldnt break up with him (i tried, and he also did a lot for me to stay). I told him i dont know if i can forgive him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

10 Signs that Tells Him, She is NOT the One!

1. Stress- If you feel stressed or anxious when you think about her. I remember a time that I was traveling to see a woman, and the whole time down there I was thinking that this is not how it's supposed to feel. If she...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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Am I right for wanting to end my engagement/relationship?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Me (29M) and my fiancé (29F) have been dating for 3 years and been engaged for a little over 6 months. We have wedding plans for July. About a year into our relationship she cheated on

Me (29M) and my fiancé (29F) have been dating for 3 years and been engaged for a little over 6 months. We have wedding plans for July. About a year into our relationship she cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. She told me about it and I told her I could forgive her for it if she stopped talking to him and let him go. Our relationship was great after that and we were both very happy, we got then got engaged after dating for about 2.5 years Anyways about 5 months ago I saw a notification pop up on her phone and it was from him. Turns out that they had been talking daily for who knows how long. We got into a big fight at the time and I told her that I did not want him hanging out in the background of our relationship and she agreed. Then a couple months later I heard his voice on a Snapchat message she was listening to and that turned into another fight, insisted to me that their relationship is just platonic and she’s not trying to get with them. She said she can’t go without talking to him and didn’t see what the problem was as long as they weren’t hanging out. I was not happy about it but agreed that as long as they weren’t hanging out I was ok with it. These last two months have been increasingly hard for us and I feel that there is always tension between us. Intimacy between us has pretty much become non existent. Multiple times the subject of her ex boyfriend has been brought up and caused us to fight. I don’t know that I can marry her knowing that he is still in the picture. Anytime I try to talk with her about working on our relationship she completo shuts down and gives me very little input. I’ve tried so hard to be ok with it but the reality of the situation is that I’m not because I feel that she is still emotionally invested in him and holding out giving emotion to me in our relationship. I just can’t rationally understand why she would want to maintain 24/7 contact with him texting and snap chatting every day when we are supposed to be getting married.

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Hey guys me and my girlfriend did kinda fight yesterday?

So my girlfriend I see her with other guys she also texts and talks to them constantly and I’m like what about me to myself and I’m like how am I your boyfriend if u don’t even text me. We played games a few days ago and...

Breadman432

Xper 2 Age: 24

Advice please :(?

I had a boyfriend of 4 years he treated me very badly during 3 years and I was still with him. He also did a lot of good stuff but the negative outweighs the positive. I decided to break up with him in September 2022 and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I lost the best thing that has happened to me?

My ex boyfriend and i have been together for 9 years. he recently broke up with me because he couldn’t handle how i was treating him. we have had a rocky past, there was a lot of things said and done from his part. i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m so worried that my boyfriend will end things with me, what should I do?

my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 years and i messed up so bad. so i’m the type of person that has a hard time letting go of the past. he has done and said some pretty crappy stuff to me, i forgave him, but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What the hell? Am I blind or just a fool?

For the last three years I have been dealing with many aspects of my life, the biggest my transition, but also from forgiving myself for the damages caused from having a narcissistic boyfriend all through highschool. I...

MakFTM1999

Xper 2 Age: 26

Will he regret hurting me, even after I acted crazy?

My boyfriend got with me and I could tell he was very scared to have a relationship. He would constantly think I’d cheat or make subtle comments of me cheating and had a huge issue with me being close friends with a male...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Anxious and unsure of what to do, Pretty sure we are both being stalked?

Needed to get this off my chest because I feel I have unfinished business. My partner was friends with this psychotic girl who did not respect our relationship at all, or either of us as people for that matter. This was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why am I so jealous?

So about a month ago I met a guy and we texted a lot. He was super flirty and I eventually started to like him, and he liked me too. He said he wasn't ready for a relationship so we were 'friends with benefits'. After a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

He broke up with me over this, was he right?

My boyfriend and I were only together for 3 months. We never fought. One day he told me he was uncertain of the relationship and left but then apologized the same day and I forgave him. I have a guy friend that is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He broke up with me over his insecurities, thoughts?

We were dating for 2 months and made it official this month. Within the first week he broke up with me because he felt we moved too fast and wasn’t sure about this. He apologized and I forgave him. On and off he made lots...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How I was able to Save my Relationship with a Girl that I deeply love after she Cheated on Me

I have been with my girlfriend for the past three years and I love her to death. She ended up cheating on me shortly before we turned three years, and I was heartbroken. I looked for advice online on what to do and if it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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How can I start becoming confident in myself and in my relationship?

my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 years. he’s very extroverted and i’m very introverted. i’ve always been introverted, but i think i’ve gotten worse lately. i don’t work anymore, i barely hangout with my friends...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date a woman who embodies the opposite of what you complain about in women, but at a cost?

(Assuming she is physically attractive to you). Men complain about getting bored with women (including their partners), get annoyed by their emotional needs and anxieties, get repulsed and frustrated when facing a...

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Influencer Age: 34

(Assuming she is physically attractive to you). Men complain about getting bored with women (including their partners), get annoyed by their emotional needs and anxieties, get repulsed

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Years ago, I took my friend's man. How do I move past the guilt?

I feel I should confess on here because I feel really bad although I don't talk to my friend anymore. How do I move past this? 2 years ago, I was in a group of friends at college in our last year. There was this one girl...

Anonymous

(30-35)