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I think my boss with a boyfriend might like me or I could be completely wrong?

i think my boss might like me but everytime i think that with a girl i'm misinterpreting the signs so i'm here to ask if there's anything. here are the "signs" i thought might signal interest: -she once came up to me and...

ikonik

Xper 6 Age: 38

Break Up & Divorce

Broke up w girlfriend in July. Still love her and want her back, but had to cut her off. Confused about recent behavior?

Trying to squeeze into 2k characters. Will answer questions for more detail. I broke up with my girlfriend in July. We were together for about 3 years, but we met 2 years before we got together. We dated for 3 months...

ImNotCreativeEither

Xper 5 Age: 42

Health & Fitness

Am I wrong if I asked this question to my boyfriend ( weight gain question ) ?

I been with my boyfriend for 12 years so I assume I can ask or talk to him about anything. I’m not over weight if anything I’ve always had trouble gaining weight. I’ve always liked my body but I was skinny back then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why do I get male attention when wearing makeup, but no attention when going without?

So, I have a boyfriend that thinks i look good with and without makeup. He says that I dont look that different when wearing makeup, i look similar to when not wearing any. So my question is why i get this extra attention...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

How could he deceive two people for a year like this?

I was in a relationship with a man who had been my boyfriend the past year. We met at a sandwich shop near my workplace. When we met, he said he was single and I didn’t see a wedding ring. We dated and he asked me to be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

My boyfriend makes me feel dumb because I was sheltered by my parents. How can I make myself feel smarter and make him believe I am?

I feel like my boyfriend thinks I’m dumb. He gets frustrated when I don’t know something that is “simple and common sense” . For example he was so frustrated after I didn’t know the difference between front and rear wheel...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Do you tend to value men or women's opinions more? Why?

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's all ears and ready to take the...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's

Anyways, it made me question whose opinions I tend to value? I am very stubborn and not many people can get through to me. I can only think of one girl who has just really gotten through to me but I guess I notice that it’s mostly been guys, thus I value men’s opinions more.

I don't know if my guy simply values the male view more because he’s so insecure and intimidated by other men, which he says all the time. But I value the guys perspective because I want to know how to captivate, communicate with, and better understand the gender that I’m attracted to.

Some may call that a “pick me” but I don’t consider it the same thing. I feel pick me’s seek validation while I more so want advice and guidance. Who better to understand a guy I’m into than a guy himself?

If I wanted advice on how to improve my appearance, dress style or to better control my emotions, then I’d seek a woman’s advice since we better understand one another’s insecurities and reactions. I rarely ask other women for advice on guys though because so many take it as competition to go after that same guy. Its so weird. Girlcode always seems to go out the window.

Another thing could be that I grew up looking up to my grandpa more than anyone else. I also got along best with my male cousin and my uncle. My friends have always been 90% guys. Like, my mom held it down for a bit but her inconsistent behavior and broken promises really got to me. So I stopped looking up to her. Maybe she, my grandma and a bunch of flaky female friends and cousins ruined it for other women too.

Some men have wronged me but never as many men as women. I guess same can be said for my boyfriend since he feels more women have wronged him yet all I ever see these days is men treating him badly. #FeelFreeToList

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Relationships

Why am I suddenly scared of my boyfriend for no reason?

Yesterday, we were about to go out and he went out to start the car.. I went out when I was ready and he said lets go but suddenly I started to feel like we are not going where we are going and he will throw me in the...

pretty

Xper 5 Age: 41

Guy's Behavior

Boyfriend has been lying all this time?

Hey, so today i’m desperately in need of advice because I’m tired and feel drained from my relationship. i’ve been dating mr perfect for almost 2 years (mr perfect cos he’s a good guy and has always treated me right) We...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

My boyfriend thought I was lying to him about my dad fracturing his hand? ?

So this is more like a rant than a question. My boyfriend and I were talking, and he asked me if we could call. I told him we couldn't because my mom was sleeping next to me. He was disappointed and then I reminded him...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

I don't believe him and I kinda think he's gay?

I've been seeing this guy for a month now. (28F + 32M) I like him, and we seem super compatible so far. But there are a few things bothering me... 1. Kinda liar He's a good person, truly. He's been single for a while and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Writing Game: "Are you calling me roadkill?" What preceded this?

So, yesterday I went out to dinner and afterward my husband and I were walking toward home down a busy city street. He overheard a woman say to her man, "Are you calling me roadkill ?" The man she was with (definitely...

AmandaYVR

Influencer Age: 53

Health & Fitness

How to see a gynocologist UK?

I'm 21 and have never been to see a gynocologist. Im in my first proper relationship now and I'm having trouble with being too tight, not just because I'm a virgin but there's actual physical limitations and it's really...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

I noticed a shift in my boyfriend's behavior. Should I wait or call?

On Friday last week we had a date. He asked for sex in my car (I told him that it's not going to happen cause I'm not comfortable doing it for the first time with him there). Plus we had an agreement that he will take me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

If There's One Thing That You Should Remember In Life, It's That You Should Treat Everyone The Way You Want To Be Treated

We need to start identifying the triggers that aggravate mental health issues in our society - bullying, social media negativity and anxiety, gender based violence, substance abuse, stigma around issues such as maternal...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Girl's Behavior

Ten double standards that most men are just sick of when it comes to male and female relationships.

10 - When women post revealing photos for attention she's confident but when a man interacts with those photos he's cheating or at the very least he's just not as loyal. This is an annoying one. The same woman who posts...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Relationships

How to determine if your child is likely yours if you have doubts

I see a lot of questions regarding infidelity and I see a surprising number of men in general saying that they had no idea they were raising a child that was not theirs. As a result I present something that may catch me...

JacobJordan

Yoda Age: 41

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Guy's Behavior

HOW DO I NICELY REJECT THIS GUY (PLS HELP)?

So there’s this guy that rides my bus that likes me, and today when i was getting on the bus he called me over but i tried to ignore him since im not interested in him but he comes to my seat anyways, asking me questions...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Ex girlfriend responds but doesn't initiate conversation - she said she wanted to talk post-breakup but now tries to get around it maybe?

Hi everyone. My ex broke up with me a little over a month ago pretty amicably over Facetime (we are students who were on opposite sides of the world for winter break), and said she wanted to meet me when we get back to...

blexalukos

Xper 1 Age: 25

Girl's Behavior

I fall in love and I am so happy to change my situation for comments?

When we met first time as friends, I had interest (but I was wrong) on other person and she finished a very bad relationship with her ex boyfriend. We had so intense affection each other and we solved olur problems so...

Anonymous

(25-29)