Search Results: how to feel better after a break up

How do I stop feeling guilty?

The other day my ex fiancé’s parents came to my apartment without warning me, they brought me some gifts and when they left, his mother messaged me that my ex has been very depressed, always sharing sad and nostalgic...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

He's a fuckboy?

I was interested in another guy. I think he likes me too as we have quite a lot of sexual tension and flirting but I have noticed him with other friends and I don't really like their interactions. There is a girl he has...

Dominque44

Xper 2 Age: 23

She says that she finds it hard to say I love you, is this the honeymoon phase wearing off?

So she says that we were better off as friends as our relationship felt like a close friend relationship but even after saying that, we still hug and held hands even still had sex though strangely I feel that our...

Hoyt22

Xper 5 Age: 22

Girls touching his hair?

Recently broke up with my boyfriend because I was interested in another guy. I think he likes me too as we have quite a lot of sexual tension and flirting but I have noticed him with other friends and I don't really like...

Dominque44

Xper 2 Age: 23

He has too many female friends?

I recently broke up with my boyfriend because I was interested in another guy. I think he likes me too as we have quite a lot of sexual tension and flirting but I have noticed him with other friends and I don't really...

Dominque44

Xper 2 Age: 23

Partner broke up with me due to feeling like a bad partner due to summer depression. Help wanted?

My former girlfriend of over 8 months broke up with me about a week ago. She suffers from anxiety, and has a past of depression. After we started summer break she became depressed. My guess is she was missing her friends...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I make him forget what happen?

a few months back me and my boyfriend we were in a middle of a breakup and when we were broken up, I was going to his friend for help since I don't have any friends and he could somewhat keep me in contact with him....

Anonymous

(18-24)

I told my fiance I dislike his parents because I feel disrepected twice. Now his taking this fact out of me. Is it better to leave this relationship?

We have some ups and downs in our relationship. But we do love each other... In our conversation I mention that I didn't want to invite some relatives to the marriage. Because I don't want to be judge on either side....

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to finally let go of a girl?

There was a girl I was seeing. She liked me first and for a long time. We kissed few times and went out but then she ended things out of nowhere. I really liked her and it hurt me a lot. It happened 10 months ago. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I feel like he broke up with me because he’s looking for traditional woman i. e housewife. Can I change his mind?

I told him about my plans (to study more, get better job and wanting to move abroad). After that he broke things off because of incompatibility.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Some latina women are cheating in their marriages too and westernization has spread in my country too... are you shocked?

It's happening in my country (Peru) too and divorces are increasing here too. More people are unhappy in relationships. Several men have a good opinion towards Latina women but looks like we're in for a rude awakening....

Vesuvius87

Guru Age: 39

Dating

How can become a high value woman a 23?

So to begin with is that I met this guy who ended up living the high life when he dumped me after finding out I had a past of sexting other guys and hated the fact I wouldn't lose my virginity with him because I felt...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My girlfriend of 7 years said it would be better if we broke up but then changed her opinion after a few days. Why do people do this after breakup?

Been with my girlfriend for 7 years, living together for 2 years. We are both 28. We almost broke up a few times already (mostly in our last year of a relationship). After having serious talk about us, she suggested we...

dontkey_hot

Xper 2 Age: 31

How to know if he is being genuine when he says he is working on himself? If he is, will he come back?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like the bad guy," communication/compatibility issues, and my close-minded family (even though that was a minor issue out of everything). He said that he wanted to work on himself to understand his emotions/feelings better, make himself a better person, needed time/space, and he couldn't do it while we were together still. He also said he couldn't guarantee that he would return right now since he is unsure what he wants and has started therapy to figure that out. He discussed moving to another state since most of his family lives there, but he hadn't told me when he planned to leave. He even broke up with me over the phone and not in person. I asked to see him at least one more time in person to discuss it at least (we live 3 hours away from each other), and he said no.

I'm unsure how to feel about all of this besides a massive unfairness since I deserve the "best" version of him when he is done with therapy, and I didn't want to end it. I have researched his likelihood of returning online, and it seemed up in the air. The breakup wasn't the worst, and I know he still loves/cares about me to a certain degree since we did last this long. I feel like I am not getting all of the information about how he feels since he mentioned how he was "done/tired" of the relationship, but his plan after a month of no contact was to be "friends" (which could easily change now) initially with the breakup. What do you think? Do you think there's a chance of him returning after therapy? I know not to bank on it, but I wanted to see if other people were in a similar situation and what happened. His mom still supports me and is helping me process this the best she can. It feels weird because it felt rushed, and he seems indifferent about it all now. Like he even bought an engagement ring for me and everything.

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Why did he stop replying?

In past 2 years, I have a local online friend, we used to get to try get to know each other romantically but was never on same page about who likes who at what time period, but we never met. I had a break up some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he keep feeling like he’s the bad guy in the relationship?

My boyfriend and I had been together for about 4 years. We had ups and downs, conflicts, communication issues, just common relationship things since we were both young when we started dating and were long distance (3...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I give him a chance?

I accidentally saw his version of the story on another forum. After breaking up with my boyfriend, I went back to my hometown because they were offering a better job position, career advancement and to visit my family...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I break up with my boyfriend again?

Me and my boyfriend got back together after 1 month of no contact because we had a communication issue. He didn’t really call or text me, sometimes went days without talking to me which made me really anxious. That was...

Anonymous

(25-29)