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Has anyone dated someone with BPD (borderline personality disorder)?
Do things get better with time, or is this a lifelong condition? I feel like many with BPD don’t want to get help, which is a concern, but I too worry about the self-harm and suicidal tendencies especially when their...
Anonymous
(36-45) Dating someone with substance abuse problems, how to help them?
Recently started seeing someone that openly admits to having substance abuse issues in the past but has had multiple relapses. Usually when things get hard from work or other stressors in life. She’s had a history of...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why More and More People Are Quitting Social Media: My Perspective
It’s no longer a secret and not something Meta and probably TikTok can hide either. More and more people - namely younger ones - are quitting social media in record numbers. There are even news reports on it as well. It...
How Can I Be Seen as Attractive in Some Situations, but Ignored in Others — Especially at Work?
I’ve noticed a confusing pattern in my social interactions. On one hand, I regularly receive clear signals that I’m considered attractive. Women sometimes approach me first, ask for my number, or compliment my appearance,...
Anonymous
(36-45) My boyfriend sees a future with me?
He wants to work in order for me to stay home which for me it would be amazing thing is I have always been alone. I have never moved in with anybody. Right now it's just my mom and I and my dog and I love it. I like my...
Anonymous
(36-45) I strongly support happiness, love, productivity, hard work, curiosity, beauty, humour and compassion. Do these things need a religous base?
I think we can love each other and try to be happy as we try to make people happy. I love knowledge and being curious or striving so hard to accomplish something. And i am not a nihilist. These are the things i value. Do...
Slave_submissive
Xper 5 Age: 22 Should I stop being friend with this person?
My friend is an extrovert and is living with her mom. She constantly complained about her living situation and always ask to come over to my house since I live alone. I’m an introvert and prefer time to myself. I just had...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls: how should I try to meet new people and make new friends of the opposite gender?
This may seem a bit cheesy, but I am absolutely terrified of communicating with the opposite gender outside of present friend groups or in a workplace setting, (even then I'm still nervous). I've been really uptight...
Gmars
Xper 1 Age: 21 According to corsetières, What percentage of USA American women are wearing the "wrong" size bra? Ladies, PLEASE answer Q below too! We need help?
Inquiring minds want to know. Many of us guys are FORBIDDEN to buy bras for our women. Doesn't matter if we know your cup size, band, under wire preference, fav brand - whatever! Walk us through the WHOLE process of bra...
DrPepper12
Master Age: 53 How do I work on not being delusional?
I feel like im a dreamer... I also do a lot of hoping. But my mind can also be skewed on reality. I do have a mental illness that makes me prone to delusions but im on good medicine to help limit it but I still find...
Anonymous
(30-35) Hooked up with someone else days after meeting my man?
Hey all! I’ve been seriously seeing this man for 2.5 months now. I thought I disclosed it to him within the first couple weeks or so that I had slept with someone else the same week I had met him, but I apparently didn’t...
mooneyou
Xper 3 Age: 24 Guys, Why do men feel entitled to a woman’s body and other sexual acts from a woman?
Not saying all men, but obviously a vast majority of them if the question is being asked. one. I’ll start with is blow jobs, men expect it. If they aren’t given it then they are upset, feel “unloved” not “cared for” not...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys’ have you ever been with a girl that wanted to take care of you financially and she didn’t want you to work?
I never experienced this before but I been offered by a very beautiful girl that told me she would take Care of me and to move into her home after I sell my home. I have always been a worker and I never been with a Girl...
Do you think there is something about the way parents raise their kids that make them successful, such as the Asian and Jewish groups in the U. S?
I would say Asian groups and Jewish groups are both cultures that focus a lot of moral didacticism towards their children when they are young, as well as the idea that nobody is going to feel sorry for you and take care...
Girls, She was asked if we were dating by a coworker, would this cause her to pull away more?
A girl I work with and I started talking about 3 months ago, we found out we’ve got a lot of the same interests, and a very similar sense of humor. Not only did it become flirty, I became someone she trusts to talk about...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How would you deal with a father who uses your and your mom’s money, ignores boundaries, and even involves your name in loans without your consent?
We live in France. My mom is the only one working, I also work, but my dad doesn’t. He spends money irresponsibly. Sending money to relatives, buying gifts for others, trying to show off a lifestyle he can’t afford. My...
Anonymous
(25-29) I am falling for her so badly?
Hi, I met i think the girl of my dreams. I had been single for sometime until i saw her. I knew right away that she is the one for me. we hooked on the same day and its been a month of knowing each other. she was in a...
Mboroyangu
Xper 1 Age: 37 Flirtation or forwardness?
What is better on a dating app or cold approach to set up a first date? Just something like “hey I caught a vibe over here and think you look great.” To me that’s laid back, chill, but also an icebreaker to make...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does anyone have reasonable opinions on dating in 2025?
A bit about me. 38, M. Widower. I've been faithful in my relationships and not into the tinder deal style of relationships. I look for integrity and communication, even if the subject is uncomfortable and work through the...
IndustrialEnthusiast
Xper 1 Age: 38 How do you deal with students trying to hit on you?
I work as a researcher+teaching assistant at a technical university. Most of my students are men in their 20s and at least 60% are my age or older. I've tried my best to appear mature but they do not understand it. They...
Anonymous
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