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Referring to Kyle

Six months ago, my ex-boyfriend cheated me with other woman. I was desperate to move on and went to dating site and met a Greek man who immediately flew to see me.

When we were still talking online, everything goes well! However, when we met in person, I realised he cannot control his anger when he cannot get his way, which makes me scared.

After a few months passed, I still had feelings for my ex-boyfriend and did reach out to him but I got more frustrated when I learned that he was getting married to the other woman.

I was depressed because of my ex but Kyle is still beside me. I lost my job but Kyle never leaves me. He wanted to meet me again this Christmas, but I'm confused with my feelings

Unexpectedly, I met a German man named Mario who only spent a vacation in my City. He is very kind and respectful. We spent time together and we were laughing and having so much fun. I started to like him, and he admits he does too. We kissed, but we never had sex since I told him, "Not yet!." He does not get mad if things don't go his way, which I really admire about him.

After a few days together, I was shocked that I was able to moved on from my ex-boyfriend because of Mario. I am complete again; however, when he leaves, I become broken again. I missed him and I was shocked Mario blocked me. He said he hasn't moved on yet from his ex, but he really likes me a lot. He may come back. I think he needs space. I missed him and wonder if he comes back.

My question here is: Should I break up with Kyle? If so, I am afraid no one will take me seriously. And Mario won't come back.

I am already 28. I am afraid I will never get married. Or should I fight for Kostas?

I'm currently on Match. The reason being around here "pickings" are slim. By this I mean drug abuse, alcoholism, welfare, cheating, etc. is quite common. It's a small very low-class town. I went on one date with a local & even that one date indicated he had a controlling persona.

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Now I work in medical & during COVID was insanely busy - I was overseeing not one but two pharmacy/clinic combinations - and there was also the fact that my gym closed down so exercise was more or less nonexistent.

I put on some weight but I am in the midst of taking it back off. And when I can hike for 2-3 hours a day on the weekend it won't take me long come the summer to do that.

My question is, should I wait until fit to rejoin Match or any online dating site? Or should I include something in my bio & let men decide?

The reason I ask is I am actually quite attractive - was approached in university by a modeling company - when I am fit & I don't want to be approached solely on looks. My cousin tried match & she found most of the men who approached her on looks to be boring dullards with little to offer except bank accounts.

Yes I know all of these online sites are very much the same but some have to be based less of photos and more on actual personality, etc. which adds actual value to a relationship.

I tried Match and found the majority of men were not interesting. Most are only reaching out based on looks & when you get to talking to them they really don't have much to offer an intelligent successful woman except their wallets (unsurprisingly a lot were divorced). When I want a partner who'd contribute to my life & I theirs beyond money it was unappealing.

I've noticed that men seem to be far more attracted to "overly-attractive" or even cheaper-dressed women even if their profiles are dull or even incomplete. Whereas a not obese, not unattractive woman who is say financially independent doesn't attract much attention.