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Search Results: planning the future
My boyfriend of 5 years wants a break. Was his reason legit and should I wait for him?
Boyfriend of 5 years brokeup with me , he needed time to figure himself out and that he has a lot of issues he does not want to drag me into it. He told me that he and his familycannot giveme a goodfuture and that I...
Anonymous
(25-29) 7 Lessons of Self-Discovery and Travelling
Every time that you step onto a plane for the first time, you are venturing and exploring outside your comfort zone. Travelling is one of my favorite past times and I have been blessed with the abilities of travelling...
MendaciousMarxist
Xper 5 Age: 34 Is my husband just having a sex fling or is he truly moving on?
I decided to start a divorce process with my husband. We still live together but are going through divorce. But since then i have been going through his phone and I see that he has been talking to a girl. He is very...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I entertain someone I don’t see a future with?
I recently started a job in August at a hospital and a co worker approached me mentioning me being new to the job. As time progressed, I realized he’ll try to make conversation and recently after so many interaction he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is it so hard for him to just co parent?
After leaving my abusive ex (father of my child) when I was five months pregnant due to his abuse, I decided to give him a chance to still be in his sons life. I did stay away my entire pregnancy and ignored his texts and...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I ask my boyfriend the exact date when we became boyfriend/girlfriend?
We started out as a physical relationship only. That’s what he wanted. He thought that he wouldn’t be able to be very good in a relationship. He has low self esteem. Though he’s always taken me out to dinner. A few months...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do some people get engaged in a slower process?
I know some people it’s all at once. He buys a ring and it’s agreed on in a moment. But other times. Do engagements happens slowly. By having talks about getting married and the future and then just starts agreeing they...
Anonymous
(30-35) Boyfriend of 6 years hid his vaping from me. I was pregnant when I found out. Advice?
So when I first met him, he would smoke weed, mostly with his friends, never around me. I was ok with it, as long as he did it in a different space. As we continued dating he had told me he stopped, and I believe that he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Will he come back?
Hey guys, I’ve been ghosted almost a week now by a guy I was seeing for a few months. Back story. We are both 34, we met and clicked straight away. He messaged me every day and called me daily always wanting to see me...
Irishkate
Xper 5 Age: 38 How do I deal when I’m going to run into the guy that ghosted me?
So for some context, I was dating this guy for 3 months. For about a month and a half he was full on, I was the greatest ever, he was telling everyone about me and planning things to go out, holidays etc. he wanted us to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Which language is more useful, French or German?
I'm planning on devoting time to learning a second language for many purposes, including more opportunities for my future job, social life and more. The languages that I'm interested in consist of French and German....
Raido2823
Xper 3 Age: 26 She fucked some other guy after me?
My girlfriend and I have been together since about November 2020. And not till now almost two years later she tells me in the heat of an argument that she fucked some guy after me. And I know who he is, he’s always popped...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is she expressing regret or seeking validation?
My girlfriend told me a few months ago we needed to take some space apart because I needed to change things to save our future. We still talked and hung out and I checked into a rehab program three weeks later. While I’m...
Bballboy96
Xper 3 Age: 29 The Importance of a Woman in Her Man's Life, and How She Can be a Better Partner for Him!
Disclaimer: Whatever is stated below was written under the assumption of a proper, functioning relationship. Without further ado, here is: The importance of a woman in her man's life, and how she can be a better partner...
xJeremyx
Xper 6 Age: 25 Should I chase him or Move on?
I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is 52 years old. We met on an online dating app and have been together for almost 2 years. From the first time we talked, he lied about his age to me. He sent romantic messages to me and...
12100794
Xper 7 Age: 31 RE: "Why are college educated people so stupid?" (And why are most young people usually Liberals?)
My response to this post, which was too long to be a single comment. Why are [modern] "educated" people so stupid? And why are most young people usually Liberals? Because "education" (especially woke indoctrinated...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 Do you feel you spend too much time planning for the future?
I'm usually too preoccupied to read but I always buy cool books cause I worry I will want to read it later and forget to buy it. I have over a thousand books that I bought during the pandemic and I only read around 70 of...
He doesn’t want to have kids but I do. Though I’m getting old and it’s getting more less likely for me to have kids. How do you accept childless life?
As I growing up, I thought I’d fall in love, get married, and having kids by now. Though the reality didn’t go as I planned. I’m 39, never been married and childless. I’ve been in a relationship for a year now. My...
Anonymous
(36-45) What does it mean when a girl replies to my message once a day?
I met this girl online and we have been talking over 2 months now. But she tend to reply messages only once a day. We do send each other like 5-8 messages about our lives, hobbies or anything. I am not sure what to think...
Anonymous
(30-35) What do this guy want from me?
Ok. So I’ve never come across a guy like this. I’m going to try and keep it as short as possible. So I had a huge crush on this guy and I would often go into his work place. I felt like it was mutual, so I eventually...
Rose89
Xper 5 Age: 38 