Ok. So I’ve never come across a guy like this. I’m going to try and keep it as short as possible.
So I had a huge crush on this guy and I would often go into his work place. I felt like it was mutual, so I eventually gave him my number after being encouraged too by a mate. He took it. I was so nervous but he appeared even more nervous. Anyways, I also have a baby. And he knows this full well. But he messaged me after work. Chatted by messaging all evening and eventually he asked me out on a date during the same week.
When it got to the date it went really well, spent all day together. And we also kissed and cuddled on my bed (no sex) but it’s then when he decided to say he was scared about the fact I have a baby. He’s got a grown son and he’s not sure he wants that responsibility. I was only ever planning on taking this slow anyways. I got really upset and felt down about it all the next day. He then saw me another day when I had my baby (I wouldn’t have planned on letting them meet so soon but he was doing me favour driving me somewhere) he was really good with my baby and interacted and played with him.
Everything between us was really good and I was really happy feeling like any concerns he may have are gone. But then he drops by the next day when my baby has long gone bed so it’s just us to say he’s not sure he wants a relationship and because he suffers from depression he’s confused about it all. So wants to be just friends, as he likes to hang out with me. Though he did say he’s interested in me. The more I got upset though as I wouldn’t stop crying. He was changing it to taking it very slow and seeing what happens in the future. But he messages me every day first. And we spent time again and in my bed all cuddled up. Again without sex.
He has also said he’s not good in relationships. And seems to avoid sex even when he’s frustrated, so I can’t even say he’s just using me for that. Every time we hang. It’s his idea.
