Search Results: scared to lose him

Wanting space yet reaching out?

My boyfriend wanted a little space because of family drama and I respected that and left him alone. He has reached out randomly once a day almost everyday to ask me about my day, and things that are super important to me-...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Im worried if I cut contact he will come after me to talk?

What I mean is there's not much motion between us and I'm not sure if it's because he's nervous or scared or just not interested. But I'm kind of hoping if I leave room for contact he will reach out? Is that a good or bad...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Scared we are moving too fast and I don't want to lose him. Is this normal?

Last night, I went to a wedding with a guy I've been talking to for about a month. We had our first date on Thursday, where we went for sushi, took a walk, and then hung out at my place (Had our first kiss too). He also...

HelloHailey

Xper 1 Age: 22

Hooked up with a guy and his girlfriend is now watching my Instagram stories?

Over the weekend I hooked up with my longtime crush. He didn't know I like him though I always came to all of his shows all over the country (he's a musician), and this last weekend he picked me up I couldn't believe it....

Anonymous

(18-24)

If a woman baby-trapped the guy but things worked out and it's been 20+ years later, should she ever confess?

Sometimes it doesn't work out and the guy bails but in other cases, the man actually does marries her (unaware of what she did), they go on having another child or children and she dies with that secret. That must be why...

Danielle93

Guru Age: 33

Family & Friends

I want to move in with him but…?

we’ve been together for over a year, but i want to go to college. i just graduated last year, and i know i want to go to school. but im afraid its going to be too much as im only 18. he is 19. im scared to leave my...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I said Hi to my crush and he is starting to avoid me now?

(remaking because i forgot to detail) So me and this guy like each other. He doesn’t know I like him but I know he does because he’s told so many people at school and the way he acts when we are around each other. He is...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How can I make his walls come down any advice and why some guys think this was?

To start off he’s been hurt by an ex back in high school she never gave him closure after their breakup, she doesn’t trust him. Fast forward to recent like these past months and years he thought he had to play it safe...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why is it so wrong to be "woke"?

Woke just originated as meaning being aware of racial and social injustice. Now radical right wingers throw it around as an insult for anyone they don't agree with. So why is it so wrong to call out injustice where you...

Ez-Bri-Z_v2

Guru Age: 46

Why do promiscuous men dislike women who display their same exact behaviors?

I’m talking about women who possibly lie and gaslight regarding their relations with other men. Maybe she’s just free spirited and is scared to settle for just one when she can have them all. Why do unfaithful men act...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Would you give a dog back to a family that gave him to you but then wanted him back?

I adopted a dog from Craigslist. The family re-homed him due to their autistic child not doing well with the dog and not having enough time for the dog due to care for the autistic child. I have a screen shot of the old...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend might need to undergo heart surgery and talking about not potentially making it and it’s scaring me, don’t know what to do?

I met my boyfriend 3 months back and we’ve been together since. Had a bunch of ups and downs but he’s been amazing and probably the best of guys I’ve dated or fucked around with. He did mention under going heart surgery...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Family & Friends

Im used to being abused. Please help?

Long story short the past couple years of my life I’ve been raped, disowned, constantly let down from every corner of my life like jobs, finding a place to rent, if I ask for something or I try for something most of the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can you make your guy best friend fall in love with you?

I have asked two questions regarding my boy best friend but it's time I want to know how to make him fall in love with me. He and I are very close. Before I fell for him, he used to tell me about any girl he liked. He...

dovey234

Xper 4 Age: 20

Why did my crush feel ashamed when I saw him with his girlfriend?

Saw my crush (whom I friendly with) with his girlfriend (the second she saw me she wrapped her arm around his). When he saw me he has such an ashamed face expression, as if he was scared or something. Maybe he didn't want...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How did you react when a girl you were in a situationship with walked away?

Or how would you react? If you didn’t know how you felt about her or weren’t ready to commit, would you care? Would it push you to evaluate your feelings? Would it scare you to lose her?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I love him or just comfortable?

I’m in a relationship and we been together for 5 months. Like at the beginning of our relationship I couldn’t stop thinking about him. But I can’t tell if this is love I’m feeling or I’m just don’t want to lose him....

Katybarry

Xper 4 Age: 24

I’m in a relationship and we been together for 5 months. Like at the beginning of our relationship I couldn’t stop thinking about him. But I can’t tell if this is love I’m feeling or

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