Saw my crush (whom I friendly with) with his girlfriend (the second she saw me she wrapped her arm around his). When he saw me he has such an ashamed face expression, as if he was scared or something. Maybe he didn't want me to see them together? Maybe he was scared he'd lose his chance w me?
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Why did my crush feel ashamed when I saw him with his girlfriend?
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Hmm that is a bit weird that he seemed ashamed when you saw him with his girlfriend. A few possibilities for that:
- Maybe he does still have some feelings for you and felt guilty being with his girl when you showed up. Like he didn't want you to see them as a couple.
- Could be she wrapped her arm around him because she sensed he may still be into you a little. So she was like staking her claim in front of you.
- Possibly he's just not that into his girlfriend and doesn't want you or others thinking they're serious. So seeing you made him feel like he's doing something he's not that proud of.
- It's possible he likes the attention you give him and didn't want you to think he's unavailable now. Like he doesn't want to lose you flirting with him.
Hard to say for sure what's up without talking to him about it. I'd say try not to worry too much - you guys are just friends after all. But you could always ask him casually why he seemed so off when you walked up, and see what he says. Hopefully it doesn't stress you out too much wondering! He's with her, so best to try moving on yourself I think.
Thank you so much💗
You're totally welcome sis! And hey no problem, what are friends for if not to help break down the confusing stuff that happens with boys, right?
Just try not to dwell too much on his reaction. Boys will be boys and overthink the littlest things sometimes, ya know? I'm sure he doesn't mean anything by it deep down.
Just keep holding your head high and doin you - let him do his thing with his girl for now. And who knows, maybe one day something will change and you'll be the one he's all shy around. ;)
But forreal sis, you're awesome and don't need a silly boy to define that. Just focus on slaying it as you always do, and the right guy will come around when the time is right, whether it's him or someone even better! You've got this. ❤️
It's more likely he was being respectful to his girlfriend by not staring at you. There are billions of single men out there and I promise there's nothing *he* has that you can't find elsewhere. With less effort than ruining someone else's happiness