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A guy & I had something in the past but we broke up and became friends but there was still some chemistry by the way us. Suddenly, he starts being hot and cold towards me, he'll avoid me one moment and talk to me the next, he just kept switching for no reason. He's a player, he moves from girls to girls for fun, trying to make me jealous too but the relationship doesn't work. We started talking again then he starts snubbing me again and he gets involved with another girl, I thought he's playing her too & trying to make me jealous but they look really happy together tbh. I'm really heartbroken and stuck, I can't move on from him & I have a small feeling he still likes me but his ego is getting in the way. I don't know what to do, I just can't continue feeling like my heart is slowly shattering everyday, I'm seriously hurting. I feel so weak and vulnerable & I hate myself for ever loving him. I honestly wanted to make him feel as horrible as I feel but I'm too nice for that. Its messing with my life ; sleep, school etc cause I was deeply in love with him. Even now, I still can't hate him as i love him. How do I feel nothing towards him? How do I act cold and emotionally unavailable around him? I just want to be free of my feelings, so he wouldn't have power over my emotions anymore. I want to go back to being the flirtatious, happy person I once was. What do I do? How do I detach myself from him? Please help!

I started a new job and have found out quickly the reason people quit is because is environment is horrendous. It is mostly coming from one woman who has been there for over 40 years. She is knowledgeable about her job but such a bitchy and mean person. I am stuck with this woman directly as I am working along side her. She constantly tries to put blame on me for things that happened even before I got there. My workload is piling up because she is passing her work onto me.

Not only calling other members of staff, c*nts, pr*cks, stupid b*tches. She started referring to the black people in our office as monkeys and other vicious remarks. Now first I thought I misheard but she said numerous times on Friday and I have not stopped thinking about it all weekend. I have already started applying for new jobs so hope to be out of there soon. Should I tell my other colleagues what has happened and the two girls in HR are the ones she is directing her hate at the most, so I feel I can’t even go to them. And the boss who has only been there 5 year walks on eggshells around this woman cause of the time she has been there. I would have stayed in this job if it was not for this woman. What should I do?