Search Results: should i wait or ask her out

My girlfriend broke up with me during the trip I was going to propose, was very cold to me before but now is being normal now that we are broken up?

So she broke up with me on the flight over, she knew I was planning on proposing a week before the trip but said that we should wait. I asked her to give me a chance and wait till we were back, since it wasn’t exactly the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Should I go for the guy that respected and treated me better than my ex (only problem is is that he is my ex’s friend) ?

So me and my ex broke up the Sunday before Thanksgiving break. I was already mentally checked out from him disrespecting me and publicly humiliating me (making me cry because I told him I would have to pay off student...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

How long I should wait for a response for a coffee date?

So, there is this guy at work. We know each other for about two years now. He is the kind of quite and calm type of guy. Also, a direct person at least when it is related to work stuff. About a year ago, he showed some...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Should I move away from my family and ghost them?

I have an extremely toxic relationship with my family. I graduated college almost a year ago and had a lot of trouble finding a job. I finally got my dream job in my field recently but it’s all the way across the country...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I move on?

Hey, I’ve been talking to this guy for a while, and we’ve gone on two dates. The first one was at a coffee shop, and the second one he took me to the cinema and dinner. He even drove 1 hour and half just to see me. When...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Question about texting a girl: how direct can I be?

There’s this girl I get along with quite well. A couple of weeks ago, I casually told her we could go for breakfast one day and she said she’d love to. I texted her a week or so later, asked her what day would be fine...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Should I accept if he asks to make it official or not?

I've been talking with a guy long-distance (3 states over) for 5 months. We met in person 3 months ago when I flew to him, and spent 9 days with him, becoming intimate. At the time he expressed he wanted more "exposure"...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How do I deal with this situation?

My boyfriend works out of town for 3 weeks at a time and comes home for a weekend. The issue is that he gets dropped off at a shop and then visits with his mom on Fridays. Instead of coming home after seeing her he stays...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

How do I deal with this?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why does a girl stays with someone that won't commit while a man would ditch her?

''Oh we've been together for 7 years but my boyfriend said he needs more time, when is he going to propose, should I wait till next year'' ''Oh my boyfriend told me I'm not ready for marriage, oh what do I do now, how to...

SeleneSecret

Xper 6 Age: 19

Education & Career

How long should I wait to get a response?

Hey getting and finding jobs have been really difficult lately I did an interview for a job role as nursery assistant and I am still yet waiting to hear back from the company the person who did my interview wasn’t...

ZainabAli123

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Is there any Finnish guys on this page? How do I know if he is interested in me and how can I let him know better that I’m interested in him too?

Calling all Finnish guys here!!! I met this cute Finnish guy. We had an incredible date, and he kissed me in the end. However, he traveled to another city, and I don’t want to be too annoying, noisy, or intense by texting...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

He hasn’t texted me for 5 days now. Is he genuine?

A guy I found on linkedin used to text me randomly like for 1.5 years but I was dating but then I brokeup dated other guys but couldn’t fall in love. But with this guy when I started talking I instantly felt like he’s the...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

Does he really like me?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

I want to ask him out on a 3rd date, but don’t want to scare him off. What would you do in my scenario?

We met in person at an event and 2 weeks later went on 2 dates. We had a 3rd one planned but I had to cancel due to a family emergency. He hasn’t made plans with me again but he does like every one of my stories and does...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Asked guy to get tested?

I met with guy from dating app. We kissed few times and I asked him to get tested for stds. He got tested and everything was negative and okay. But he tested to only 7 viruses, and I asked to take another 3 that he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I relax till she opens up?

Something came up at school and it's something that could be done individually but she called me to ask when I'm doing mine so she could join me. She was even begging for me to tell her if she should start hers or wait...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guys, Dumped me but still text me back and keeps me on Snapchat?

In April I reconnected with a guy I went to high school with and we hit it off. For the first 6 weeks we talked everyday and snapped each other a lot. When he was drunk he told me he loved me, asked me to date him, move...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I just let it go with the guy I thought was the one?

I was talking to this guy from an app and we had our first date, he immediately asked me for a second but got really sick and kept my updated, we were talking consistently, and right before I left for a big trip he told...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is IT bad when a Man says: 'I'll take you out when I have more time'?

Some time ago I asked a guy out for a walk. Initially he said 'yes', but due to my unorthodox working-time I could only meet on Friday and Saturday. He said that he would rather not for about 2 weeks, because there were...

Insecure2

Xper 5 Age: 35