I was talking to this guy from an app and we had our first date, he immediately asked me for a second but got really sick and kept my updated, we were talking consistently, and right before I left for a big trip he told me he promised we’d meet again.
I got back and before I left sent a couple texts saying couldn’t wait to see him, there were a couple before, I didn’t think anything of it that I didn’t get a response because I was away for a full month, when I got back over the span of 3 weeks I sent 5 other texts and the final basically said I understand he’s going through mental health stuff but when he’s ready I’m here. I just was super surprised and didn’t factor in the fact this was gonna happen.
I’m wondering if in a few weeks if I still don’t hear back if I can send this:
Hey, I know we haven’t talked in a while, and I’m sorry for all the messages—I realize it’s been a lot, more than I’ve ever sent to anyone haha. I had just gotten back from Europe after a month and didn’t realize you might have needed more time. And I know you said you wanted to reach out. I really enjoyed meeting you, and if you ever want to talk about things, I’m here. I’d still love that second meet. I know how rare connections connections can be, and you’re lucky to find only a few. I wish I’d been more considerate of what you were going through, and I feel really bad about it, it’s been on my mind since I got back last month. If you feel up to it, and I know there’s a chance I won’t hear from you, let me know when and where, and I’ll be there. I promise I won’t send this many texts again, but I felt like I needed to say this lol I think about that night we met sometimes. It was great night.
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Sorry but he was not close to the ONE! It happens but he ghosted you. He did not feel like another after asking for one! Here is a big hug!
Girl you don't know it's the one till much much later and looking back!
Every one is like look for your one! Most are divorced or not happily married!
Look for your special someone you always want to be with. Not a magic the one!
Only in romance books do we get that! You make each other your special one working together day after day together.
If it’s done. It’s done
So don’t send a last message? Just leave it?
Do it