Search Results: wanting to end relationship

I have no relationships/friendships, is that normal?

I (23) other than family have no relationship or friendships. in the past I have been used by my “friends” or they ended up cutting everyone out once they got a boyfriend and come back to me once there boyfriend is out...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do some men want a casual relationship then get upset when they are treated casually?

I don’t want a relationship at the moment. I’m moving out of the country in a few months and starting grad school. I don’t want a relationship either, but he: • invites me to hang out with his friends • wants to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is it so difficult for me as an autistic women to get a date/boyfriend?

I don’t understand. I’m kind, loyal, honest and trustworthy but I know my autistic traits can turn people off but I do my best to control it. I was told any man that ends up with me will have a good woman. People say I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was I wrong for breaking up with him?

I broke up with my boyfriend recently and not sure if I made the right decision. i ended my relationship despite us not being together the longest because I was so unhappy. I was his first girlfriend. he was not perfect...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you heal after your ex blocks you everywhere?

My ex had been uncertain about our relationship since April — he didn’t know whether he wanted to stay with me or not. It was a heavy and exhausting situation, because I kept waiting, and holding on for so long. But he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What to say about the phone, texting, to friends?

I am in a relationship where jealousy took the dominant seat. Once I knew I paniced and left to then return after we tried to work it out. I have in the past been in a relationship that was poisoned by jealousy as well,...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

Why would someone throw away a loyal partner for someone clearly worse?

Two years ago, my ex-wife cheated on me with one of her coworkers. I’ve been with my current girlfriend for a year, loyal, loving, and better than my ex in every way, yet I still can’t get over it. The anger hits...

Inevitiablecost

Xper 1 Age: 37

Society & Politics

Why do you as a non African think interracial relationships are a good thing in Southern Africa ( if you do) ?

I'm an ethnic Zambian ( Southern African), I see a lot of Americans and Europeans criticizing Southern African countries as segregated when the reality is for all countries except South Africa and Zimbabwe, we have...

Anonymous

(18-24)

T's been almost 9 years. Why won't he change his behavior?

Sooo once again, I ALWAYS end up sleeping with my ex boyfriend. In hopes of thinking we will end up back together.. it's so hard walking away from a 9 years relationship.. something that he won't claim to anyone. I don't...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why is my guy friend keeping me around while he is dating someone else?

I have been friends with someone for 8 years. He liked me for a while in the beginning and had asked me out a few times. I had some really hard things I was dealing with at the time and wasn’t able to date anyone but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Is this an inappropriate relationship?

About two and a half years ago, I was getting ready to study. I liked to listen to livestreams or podcasts while doing so, and came across this small creator on YouTube. Over time, I became a regular on his lives, and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Learn to Let Them Go

This Take is more for women than it is for men. I’m aware there are guys who can't let go of the wrong person, but I still think this issue is by far and large more of a problem with women. Right now I know some women in...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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What do you think is going on with her?

So I’m in a situationship with a woman who’s my age. And we’ve met online. And at first she didn’t really respond because she thought I wasn’t real, but she started loving me when she found out I was. She even bought me a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you believe in waiting till you're old to find the right person?

Many young people are under the impression that the longer they wait, the more likely they are to find the right person. I'm gonna let you in on a rude awakening... if you think you would have plenty of options by the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have You Ever Had A Long Term Partner Tell You That They Want You To Find Someone Else? What Did You Do After They Said That To You?

My ex started saying this to me near the end of our relationship, she would make comments that I should go find another girl that will treat me better than she does because I deserve it and she admitted she can’t be that...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Dumper over Birthday gift after 7 months?

I started dating a coworker people suggested I get to know. I had just come out of a breakup and wasn’t that interested at first, but we got closer and eventually started dating. Around that time, my mom passed away, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do people find it so difficult to be alone?

I know so many people that just jump from one relationship to another. So many people think they need a girlfriend or boyfriend to be happy. People that get married and before the divorce is final they are looking to get...

aaron13547

Explorer Age: 31

Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn’t even want to hear his ex’s name or see her? Does this mean he still has feelings for her?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now, and he had a very traumatic relationship with his ex. He even went to therapy and went through a period of depression afterward. His ex is still in the same friend group with...

Anonymous

(18-24)