Search Results: why not be together

What is the most important idea in a long term relationship to you besides trust?

I was talking to someone earlier about long-term relationships and how far capability creates a sense of mutual respect. The comfort in knowing you’re both capable people. Someone responded by talking about worldview,...

Telekinetic-Potato

Master Age: 29

Why do I feel lonely in my relationship?

We’ve been together for 4 years. Overall the relationship’s been good, we did face a lot of tough times together. My boyfriend is also an avoidant and lacked transparency, he broke an important promise multiple times but...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Technology & Internet

Do you think ai says a lot about humanity since it's based on humans?

The most annoying thing about public models right now is they're getting so white washed and "politically correct" and "safe" that they're becoming less useful. And it reminds me of this guy Kary Mullis who effectively...

Telekinetic-Potato

Master Age: 29

Why was he making a move?

I caught up with a guy friend, with whom I've recently fallen in love. A few days after saying he loves me like a sister and finds the thought of intimacy with me revolting, but he wishes he didn't, because he thinks we'd...

MissSunshine2

Xper 6 Age: 37

I found out that my boyfriend is married, and I confronted him about it. I feel like he is gaslighting me. Who is in the wrong in the situation?

I started dating this guy who said he was a single dad but I discovered that he is married. I found out about it when he was on a “work trip”. (aka going on vacation with his wife.) He had claimed that he didn’t have any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Met a man instant chemistry no date planned?

Met man in a club. Instant chemistry. We was super into eachother. Swapped numbers. Talked daily. He met with me we slept together. Chemistry remained high and he would call me daily. Then suddenly the morning calls...

Unrealiseddream

Xper 4 Age: 40

Guys, Did he ever really like me, what changed?

This guy at my job and me started talking. He asked some of our mutual friends before we started to talk what i like etc, he seemed very genuine eventually we started talking on the phone and went on a date, this kept...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why does he act like this?

Slept with a guy almost 6 months ago. He was a acquaintance. The sex was great very intimate, I knew it was just sex and that’s it. This happened while I was visiting the east coast, anyways he kept in contact cool. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does my crush at work like me?

I have a crush on a guy that I work with. I think we have great chemistry. We have similar interests and we work well together. We’re both introverted but I would say I’m a bit more expressive and he’s more reserved with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What was his goal? What’s wrong with liking white guys?

I'm a light-skinned Black girl, and this light-skinned Mexican guy with curly hair said, “You like white boys,” just because my profile says I love pale and tan guys. I told him I prefer non-Black guys more, and he acted...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Technology & Internet

My favourite video games of all time

Now my list is obviously personal I’m very picky with games and a big mutiple choice lover but in saying that I realize my list might not be what most or everyone else would enjoy so there is no right or wrong in this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Social media / couples boundaries?

We don't follow each other on all social media platforms (only on 2 - Instagram & Facebook, not tiktok) to respect some level of privacy online, but I don't like some of the profiles he is associated with especially when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my crush not accepting my follow request?

I’m a university student and I’ve developed a crush on someone in one of my classes (I’ll call him “L”). We first met last semester in a brief but memorable way, we were in an elevator, I asked a question out loud...

Princessofthefrogs

Xper 4 Age: 19

Should people with disabilities date each other instead of trying to get with non disabled people?

Let’s be real, nobody is going to want to date someone that has a disability. Normal people want someone that’s also normal. Nobody was special needs children. Why do you think most neurotypicals are together they have...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

Break Up & Divorce

I just want a guy’s perspective on this matter pretty much?

So me and my ex we still live together. It’s been about five months since our break up we’re still very intimate still do couple things that aren’t saying we’re just friends and it’s like one minute he’s hot and then he’s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My girlfriend moving in, is she giving off Red Flags?

I've been with my SO for almost 2.5 years and she is currently fully moving in to my apartment. At first it felt great to have her in my place all the time. She would spend a majority of her week at my apartment and over...

imnoangel90

Xper 3 Age: 35

Can someone help me understand why women are looking for a platonic partnership?

I know this is a bad question all together. I do know there are asexual people. I have two female friends in my accommodation, who only want a platonic relationship. From my perspective they just want a male friend...

Anonymous

(25-29)