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Is it okay to message my college crush for support after my mom died?
I’ve asked others here if it seems like he has a crush on me. This guy I go to college with. He definitely stares at me a lot (like long gazes) even when I didn’t notice him at first but then I do, seems to be near me a...
Anonymous
(30-35) What subtle green flags show someone is a keeper, and which red flags are real dealbreakers?
Hey everyone. I'm a 19-year-old guy. I grew up in a house full of brothers, so I feel like I'm learning about women from scratch. I've been in a long-distance relationship with my girlfriend (18F) for about a year....
devonsix6
Xper 1 Age: 20 Is it just blatantly obvious that he doesn’t care about me or is there possibly another reason?
I dated this guy for 6 months. We’re family friends, so it wasn’t casual. He’s been under a lot of pressure the whole time. He’s building a company, working 12-hour days, constantly dealing with investors and stress....
Anonymous
(18-24) Is he just busy and hurting, or actually not interested in me?
Exchanged #'s with a guy I'd see around. We texted for over a week. He said he's desperate for connection and having trouble making friends. I invited him to an event. He said he could make himself available". OK I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it normal for people to want to date just for sex at this time?
I met up with a guy I’d met on social media; we were supposed to meet months ago, but the timing didn’t work, so I had to cancel a few hours before the date, and he completely blocked me. A few weeks ago he got in touch...
Carina0
Xper 5 Age: 22 Is it easier to find a good girl or a good guy?
My friends girlfriend is saying it's easier for men to find a good woman than it is for a woman to find a good guy. And now everyone is arguing 😂 I thought it was kinda funny this came up at my friend's birthday after I...
Mixed signals from a guy friend after rejection and breakup—does he like me?
Okay , so I used to like this guy, and I got his number. We became friends. Then I confessed to him. He said he used to like me but not anymore. So I moved on. He once asked if we could go fishing together when I said no...
Ailen2
Xper 1 Age: 18 How can I cope with jealousy toward my close friend?
I'm very insecure and seeing her being better than me in almost everything is torturing me. I don't treat her badly because I know my insecurity is not her fault. It's so frustrating and being around her makes me even...
IloveMacDemarco4
Xper 3 Age: 21 Is it fair to end things if he’s flaky and won’t commit to real plans?
So we’ve got 4th date on Monday or Wednesday, he asked me out but he still hasn’t confirmed it exactly when. And today he seems to be at home and is texting me from there, even though he said he wasn’t sure if he would be...
Blake Lively Is Toast... but There Might Be Hope
About a year ago I wrote a Take about the whole Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni case in which Lively accuses him of sexual harassment Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad . Since then we’ve...
Why would a guy suddenly stop calling me by my name?
My male friend calls people by their names and he used to call me by my name as well. Suddenly he has stopped that. If he sees me he'd start talking to me and usually the tone is a bit different, I somehow always...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I know if I made the right decision of breaking up with my boyfriend?
I started dating this guy who I had on a pedestal for basically my whole life because we’re family friends and he’s a very hard worker and very dedicated to his work which I always admired. He’s super creative and he’s...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is he still interested after a great first date and then going silent?
I met this guy on a dating app about 3 weeks ago. I sent out the like first. We matched the next day and we started talking right away. He came in very strong and looked very interested. He would reply fast, flirt, make...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever given a thought about how much personal info we are giving away?
Just a situation I came across this morning. I wanted to open a YouTube video and was asked to confirm if I was over 18. Before you guys think otherwise, it was a link I clicked on this forum. I was given three options....
Tarifa
Yoda Age: 45 Can attraction grow if I’m just not into the nice guy I’m dating?
I met a guy. He’s cute and we are the same age. He is very nice. He asks me a lot of questions, initiates meetings by himself. Pay when we go somewhere. But I don’t feel anything toward him. Sometimes he tries to kiss...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did this guy from my university club go from staring and joking with me to suddenly ignoring me?
He used to stare a lot at me either from a distance or sometimes I caught him staring at me during our club events together. He used to make jokes with me, say my name a lot too, & used to be around me a lot too. He goes...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I calmly distance myself from a female coworker for peace of mind?
Never thought I’d see the day I would say I don’t want to talk to a woman but I’m just happier alone not having to worry. About saying the wrong thing if I get em out my life I have no worries I notice when I say little...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did my aggressive boyfriend break up and blame me for talking to his mom?
I dated my boyfriend for about a year, but I was always trying to break up with him because he was always aggressive with me and never changed. In the beginning, he used to apologize for his mistakes, but after a while he...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this normal behavior for knowing each other for 3 months?
Is he using me for sex or is he just physically into me? Not going to lie we had sex one time and I didn't even get to finish. After that I guess he enjoyed it. We text everyday but he is always inconsistent this is since...
Anonymous
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