Search Results: good guy friend

When a guy wants friends with benefits but acts emotionally involved?

A guy wants a friends with benefits situation. I set clear rules: no dates, no overnights, and only 2–3 hookups to avoid feelings. We haven’t hooked up in two weeks but text daily, often flirtatiously. I declined meeting...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

What To Do About Our Friendship?

I have been friends with a guy friend for about a year now as we met in grad school. We got closer as time went along and he event told me how he wanted me to be a part of his journey. It was so nice as we got closer and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can people be like this?

Long story short, I had an ex [LDR] with whom I stayed 8 months for. Well the relationship was going very good for the first months. Then slowly I started recognising a toxicity pattern. Like DARVO , Gaslighting ,...

Alxve

Xper 4 Age: 19

So I am a 19 years old girl that has older friends. recently I was asked out by my friend who is a 35years old. should I date him?

My friend is still struggling financially and we met at work. He is a typical good guy but I have just never had it in mind to date him. I don't want to break the friendship or make it awkward. Should I just agree because...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Would you consider this monkey branching or a form of cheating?

So I left this ex.. but I wanted to know if I was cheated on. So my ex was verbally abusive and other manipulation tactics. Here at the end of the relationship. She made a guy friend. Which I was first chill about...

Alxve

Xper 4 Age: 19

What does it mean when a guy acts so weird around a girl?

There’s a guy who I’ve met recently through friends and he seems to act really weird, like he’ll lock eyes with me a lot, when he first sees me acts a bit stunned like he’s forgotten what he’s saying, stutter a little,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did he not like me? what’s going on?

This was several months ago now. I had a classmate from my cohort. An international student from Europe. Our career path is very female dominated, so he's one of the only guys in the class. He's also one of the only good...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Hobbies & Leisure

Can someone explain to me the craze that is the charcuterie board and parties that are formed around them?

As a single 30 something guy, all my married friends and seemingly single women too, it’s all about charcuterie all of the sudden, in the last couple of years. I don’t understand why it’s suddenly become a trendy thing....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

(1) What to do about a guy who's fallen in with the wrong crowd? (2) Can you always tell the "right" crowd from the "wrong" one?

There's a European expression, "Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are." A guy I know is v different from me, very "new money" and chasing every opportunity to just make a buck. As a result he's...

DishLady

Influencer Age: 52

Education & Career

How many jobs have you had?

I've always been kinda proud of my work history. I've been everything from a landscaper to a cook to a photographer, producer. Did music production and recording engineering. Some mechanic work, then I was selling cars,...

Telekinetic-Potato

Influencer Age: 29

Is this just a phase, or does my wife really like black men?

Lately, my wife of 25 years has been making little comments to me and our friends about how handsome she finds certain black men. Never white men, always black men. It is always subtle, but it has happened on three or...

Curious5743

Xper 1 Age: 49

Do you girls’ know us men want kindness from you to feel loved and respected?

Most of us guys’ don’t receive this from a girl unless we do something for her , we don’t receive softness , we don’t receive kindness on a regular basis , we don’t receive reassurance or made to feel worthy , unless we...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

How do I tell a guy nicely that he talks too much?

I went on a second date and this man spoke for two hours straight about himself, ... again. First time around I thought it's because he is nervous. I tried to get some comments in but he spoke over me each time. During a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did I do the right thing?

Guys ask me for girls names and numbers all the time. Typically I don't give it out either because the guy or the gal is odd. If a girl asks about a guy and he's asked about her then I'll ask if they're both ok that...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Would you talk to the best man from your wedding?

Years ago in what feels like a galaxy far, far away, there was a guy... a great fellow, my guy's bff. We'd never met, though we'd apparently traveled in the same circles our entire childhood. Suddenly I'm engaged and my...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Guys, has your life been negatively impacted by a woman?

Guys, has your life been negatively impacted by a woman? I don't mean memorizing facts and statistics, binging red-pill content, "she broke up with me and hurt my feelings", or being upset that Kathleen Kennedy destroyed...

BCRanger10

Master Age: 38