Search Results: guys being mean

Guys, He's asked me to be his girlfriend after 3 weeks?

We went on a double date in the early 00s. Reconnected as very casual friends in 2018. When I say friends I mean the odd Facebook message. No meet ups. Recently he confessed a crush on me and we started talking. He came...

Unrealiseddream

Xper 4 Age: 40

Society & Politics

Feminism’s Great Divide: Why Shutting Out Men and Labeling Women ‘Pick-Me’ Stalls Progress

Emma Watson’s 2014 UN speech, launching the HeForShe campaign, threw down a gauntlet: “How can we have a thoughtful open discussion when only half the population feels invited to join in the conversation?” Her call to...

DexWest

Xper 7 Age: 33

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Maybe love isn’t for me?

I don’t know. Just like any other ordinary girl, I long to love and to be loved. To the point where it becomes desperation because it never arrives. Not once in my life have I had a boyfriend. I am 20 with zero...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If a guy (early 30s) asks a girl her age does that signify potential interest?

For context, say the 2 young adults in question had just met that day and had a few easy good conversations by this point. They came from the same background, spoke the same language, and enjoyed talking, but lived in...

archanimal92

Xper 5 Age: 34

Do you think is SERIOUSLY fair that my friends only hook me up with chubby or fat guys because I’m a chubby big girl myself?

It’s so unfair. I mean I appreciate them wanting me to be happy but I always get hooked up with fat guys. I’ve always been a big girl. Tall girl. It sucked throughout childhood. My slim friends always get asked out, I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I don’t really know what to do at this point?

I know it’s just soo bad to come on here for advice because not everyone is me and not everyone will have experienced what I am. I think I should explain in short you see I feel like I am having a PTSD moment because the...

FlameZee07

Xper 1 Age: 32

What does it mean when guy friend who you have a crush on calls you homie?

I made a friend on social media. He gives me a lot of encouragement on my running. He has flirted with me where he would send me these emojies 😍😍😍🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 or say beautiful views 😍 where I'm in one of the pics. He...

Sweetascandy1990

Xper 6 Age: 36

My boyfriend is like a particular girls post?

he's 26 im 25 been together a little over 2 years and just got our own place beginning of may. went through his phone two weeks after to see that he had dm two girls. we show each other girls ass and all that so im not...

rayray014

Xper 1 Age: 25

I am a hopeless romantic. What does it mean if a guy hs a look in his eye?

Am I too romantic and what do I do if I read into stuff too much? What’s it mean if you meet a guy for the first time and you see his eyes and there’s a look in them that says he thinks you’re attractive It’s like it...

Jeijjjrur

Xper 1 Age: 34

If he says I’m like a little sister to him, does that mean I have no chance with him?

I have been going through a lot this year, and a few of my friends quit talking to me. I don’t know why, but I assume It’s probably my fault somehow. I was feeling very insecure and was confused as to why he (the guy I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, how would you feel if your boyfriend would NOT be mad if you ever cheated on him?

I don't mean "not mad" in the sense that he is quietly planning his revenge, but rather that he would be very calm and understanding about the situation and that he will love you the same. Let's say you cheat on your...

Anonymous

(25-29)

(1) What's the best (respectful) way to refuse a guy's attention w/o bruising his heart? + (2) Why do guys bother with a much older gal?

I've got a strict height+age requirement for guys -- yeah, like kids @ a theme park. (Don't dwell.) At a recent church social (everyone on their best behavior, even the wolves-in-sheeps-clothing types) a sweet-faced...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Why do women get a kick out of getting even the slightest/most formal kind of attention from a guy who has a girlfriend?

Like it could be simple as him telling another woman goodmorning. That’s just being polite. That doesn’t change the fact he has a girlfriend but let that woman tell it, he’s flirting with her. Or a taken guy holding the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls if a guy approaches you at a bar and politely asks to buy you a drink what would make you say yes?

I keep putting myself out there and I keep getting shot down over and over and over and it's been this way my whole life. I've never once been hit on in my life yet both family and strangers say they don't think I'm ugly....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was I right to tell my friend off for seeing another guy behind her guy friend’s back?

Now my friend has a guy friend that is madly in love with her. I mean he is crazy about her! She knows he’s in love with her. I TOLD her get in love with her but she never believed me. She kept telling me they’re just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have feelings for an evil man help me?

About 5 months ago I was going out with this guy for a month and a bit. He wanted to see me everyday. We did fun dates together and he made it seem like he wanted to date me and get into a relationship. He was going on a...

Anonymous

(18-24)