I don’t really know what to do at this point?

[FlameZee07]

I know it’s just soo bad to come on here for advice because not everyone is me and not everyone will have experienced what I am. I think I should explain in short you see I feel like I am having a PTSD moment because the last guy I spent 6 years liking would spend his day not talking to me and if he ever communicated was to tell me how many girls he slept with or his ex! In the end he kept me there for soo long and I just watched my story unfold and got hurt!

Im starting to feel like the same thing is happening again with someone else the signs are way to similar and well I’m lost I know a lot of you will say just get up and leave but it’s not that easy to just walk away as it sounds! I have tried to contact him since Friday and got nothing and no answer I understand sometimes he has his on and off days but because of his signs being similar I feel lost and confused on trusting him!

again I feel like this guy will be lost out my hands to maybe happily ever after aren’t made do everyone maybe not everyone is meant to find their forever person if that’s the case than I’m fine with it but I’d rather be mature and leave you know than stay and get hurt I don’t wanna argue about this cause he says he’s never told me he don’t like me but he’s never exactly said he likes me either just avoids this convo as a whole and my feelings seem to be strong more strong than his I have asked him what that means guess it’s now a waiting and guessing game! My PTSD if that’s what I’m going through won’t let me!!!

[Finchie40]

Only advice I can give you is the fact that you are wasting your time on someone that isn’t giving back the same in return , the only person you are hurting is yourself by thinking this guy actually cares about you , You are just someone he talks to as an acquaintance but nothing else. When a guy likes a girl and wants to be more that just an acquaintance with a girl , he wouldn’t be telling her about all the girls’ he likes and is sleeping with period. So it’s up to you if you want to continue being strung along or up to you if you want to move on to someone else and find yourself a guy that actually wants to be with you

[ProbablyClueless]

I feel like the message he's conveying here is extremely clear. Unless there's some additional information I'm missing here. There's no mixed signals here. There's no guessing game. He's giving you a massive, royal middle finger and heaping bullshit onto you, and you keep coming back for more.

This guy goes out of his way to be SPECIFICALLY HORRIBLE TO YOU. He tells you about OTHER WOMEN when he does talk to you. And he actively avoids acknowledging your feelings.

Let's reverse the roles for a second; what would you say if your guy friends told you about how a girl he likes was treating him this way. What would you say?

He does those things because he, even more than not being interested in you, he is actively pushing you away. There's no "possibility for something more."

[Anonymous]

You could start by asking a question. This is a question and answer site.

[AI Opinion]

Hey, superstar! 🌟 I'm here to sprinkle a little wisdom on your love life! Sounds like you're caught in the infamous cycle of ghosting and mixed signals, and that déjà vu isn't helping either. It's so important to keep your emotional safety net ready—prioritize your heart first. Trust your instincts; if his actions are giving you déjà vu of negativity, it’s a red flag! Relationships should lift you up, not bring back bad memories. Remember, you deserve someone who cherishes the awesome person you are. Don't play the guessing game alone! Talk to people you trust for support. Sending virtual hugs your way! 💖

[Staximus]

Actually get to know who a guy is before you let yourself get attached to him. There's plenty of other guys out there, move on with your life already. The guy is not your husband or even your boyfriend, get over it.