Search Results: hate trying to date

Should I try to ask her out again now that she's single? Do I probably have a chance?

So at work there is this girl that I've been very attracted to and interested but always was terrified to approach her for a variety of reasons. I saw her staring at me a few times before. I approached her last year but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I really don’t know why i’m so sad and so unhappy?

i’ve been this way for a real long time. i can’t pin point the exact date or anything but i know i haven’t been happy. i can’t blame anyone but myself for my unhappiness but i don’t know what it is. i have an idea but i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...

SimonClass

Xper 2 Age: 28

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Education & Career

Perspective for struggling university students out there.

Been there. It sucks to struggle at university...especially when you are taking out so much money to do so. If you are struggling at university out there, perhaps I can give you some hope. In high school I was not a...

Messianic_Monk

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It’s not hard to find a sweet guy you just don’t want that?

When I moved to USA in middle school I was constantly made fun of. I was called r3t@rd, had my accent made fun of and mocked and laughed at for not speaking English. Was nicknamed ESL girl on the soccer team because I was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What Do Guys Want to Know About Girls?

There are always questions we have about the opposite sex. It bothers us, we need to know, we don't understand, so here are a few. As per usual, I DO NOT SPEAK FOR ALL WOMEN, just my own experience, so chill if you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Break Up & Divorce

I want to contact my ex boyfriend after a year and a half of no contact. Should I apologize?

My ex and I dated for 2 1/2 years. He had a lot of child hood trauma and inner struggles with himself which came out throughout our relationship. He treated me poorly. I loved him so much but I was unhappy and didn’t feel...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do white women treat others the way they don't want to be treated?

It's funny. It's like we're in an asymmetrical gender war. They do things they know will stir up strife, but they don't expect any negative response in return. Wanna know an example? They praise black men, sometimes even...

CALIGVLA

Xper 6 Age: 27

Is it weird to ask a guy for his last name?

I know I'm going to get hate like everyone who asks stupid questions like this does. But I have bad social anxiety, so I've been trying to just hint to this guy that I like him. Do you think it's creepy to ask him what...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does it make me a bad friend for trying to get my friend's crush to reject her?

We have the same crush. My friend said she was planning on confessing her feeling for him and I was happy for her. I was really happy for her. Me and the guy were going on a date ( friendship date I think because I know...

SpaceRainbows

Xper 1 Age: 17

Why do people try to make someone feel obligated to date someone they’re not attracted to?

I mean you would rather someone tell you the truth. Just because someone ain’t attracted doesn’t mean they hate you as a human being. it means they’re not the right one. Why not stop focusing on the wrong people and move...

Summeroflove

Influencer Age: 30

Society & Politics

Lessons I Have Learned In 20 Years of Life

Hi everyone, it sure has been a while since I last came on here. I stopped coming on here, but I thought I'd come back to write this because 4 years ago I wrote a MyTake about the life lessons after I turned 16, and last...

SpiderManFan2002

Editor Age: 23

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Should I be honest about how I TRULY feel towards him?

I’m sorry if this is a mess but I’m everywhere rn. We’re both 22. I’ve known him for 5 years total. We dated in high school and back then I had super strong feelings for him but I chalked it up to being young and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this normal behavior for a girl you asked out and who said yes to a date?

She is 30, I'm 31. We're friends, work together, and have gotten close over the past few months and based on her behavior I asked her out. She said sure, and seemed genuinely excited about the planned I cooked as it isn't...

Watdsas

Xper 3 Age: 28

Other

Why is it that I'm more straightforward and less forgiving the older I get?

My boyfriend of 11 months has met me as a direct and serious woman (the non-joker in the family) but admires that. Though every now and then, my childish, funny side will come out. In comparing to my younger years, I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Men should never online date

Thats just gonna suck because girls of our age dont understand this concept yet.They probably compare it to real dating and think it sucks thats why most of the time it won't go well.You will most likely end up getting...

Alperengin11

Xper 2 Age: 32

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Things You Need to Know Before Dating a Weird Person for A Long Term

People tend to want to have a normal person to be their date. Even so, you’re lucky enough if you meet someone mixed from unusual ingredients which is so-called weird like you may want to learn One thing for sure when...

humanearth

Master Age: 58

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I know we agree to an open relationship (kind of) but did he had to do this?

My boyfriend of 3 years and I have been having issues and arguing for several months. By mid July we agreed to have a kind of open relationship. I didn't even try to hide the dating site. I already told him in advance...

Anonymous

(25-29)