Why do people try to make someone feel obligated to date someone they’re not attracted to?

[Summeroflove]

I mean you would rather someone tell you the truth. Just because someone ain’t attracted doesn’t mean they hate you as a human being.

it means they’re not the right one. Why not stop focusing on the wrong people and move on with your life. Take no for a answer.

This goes for both men and women so don’t attack one sex or the other about it.

If someone isn’t into you. They’re not into you. Be glad they’re not stringing you along

[LiamJHayden]

People who are rejected will often resort to trying to shame the person who rejected. It is a defense mechanism for the psyche of the one rejected, who cannot accept that the other person is not interested so there must be something wrong with that person.

[Summeroflove]

They can’t see they’re their own worst enemy

[Summeroflove]

Especially with a attitude like that

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't think I've ever had that happen. Well, maybe once. Not that I was OBLIGATED to date her but I WAS with her for a few weeks without being very much in love with her. And, although she was a nice girl, she just wasn't quite my cup of meat.

[Summeroflove]

Ahhhh

[Random_g]

I just posted a question related to that.. I know I'm not attracted but I don't know how to say no

[Summeroflove]

It’s better then stringing someone alone. I mean you like and respect him as a person so you don’t want to hurt him.

But it’s better just to say I’m not interested sorry but im sure you’ll find someone