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Original post:Would you also be put off by this sexual comment?

Guy makes unexpected sexual comment (even though Reddit disagreed & I was being attacked), I call him out, he takes a step back & follows up the next day apologizing. We talk as normal & he eventually ended up asking me to meet up last night, we have a tentative day & time next week. He replies to a message from me last night early this morning, I reply around 1 this afternoon & he hasn’t replied. Maybe nothing to say, is busy etc it’s hard to say. I say I’m concerned considering we’re talking about one his fave shows & he usually replies within the hr & it’s been 4 hrs. We were supposed to video chat yesterday afternoon (right around the time he apologized) but I’m assuming he didn’t want to push it since I was turned off the night before. He’s just saying all the right things & I don’t remember him saying if he had plans today (besides him being a football fan), should I be worried?

The guy is Muay Thai class A pro-fighter at the local town's sports centre (Muay Thai oriented). I'm a beginner class B.

I don't know him properly, but I've heard some things about him (mostly good) and I have also looked him up at the fighter's page (he seems to be around my age or slightly older). He's really good at Muay Thai (thai box) and has already won a title and other fight matches as well.

I think I might already have a crush on him. :|

We don't always meet (me being a beginner, him a pro) but when we do he always seems to be looking at me, he comments on the way I do stuff (not always the right way, I have much to learn), he's not rude but he's honest, he's also quite playful, he's noticed it makes me very nervous when he (as an occasional trainer) watches me so we kind of joke about that. 😅 It's hard to explain 😅 My first visit there, he actually let me borrow his expensive skipping rope. He's also always ready to say hi (one time I forgot my stuff there so I went back to this sports centre, I didn't know he's gonna be there and seemed so surprised by seeing me dolled up a little bit in my more normal clothes).

I guess I can't really expect more because we don't meet that often. :/ But when we were getting warmed up, I was supposed to pull him over, he of course did let me win (I guess he sees himself as a gentleman, he has that reputation there, girls said he doesn't punch as hard when sparred against a girl). In that moment, when we touched and held each other's arms, I thought I might have felt something but I brushed it off.

I haven't been with anyone for a long time now so I might sound like a little girl again to you.

I will really appreciate anyone who reads this wall of text of mine and shares what they think.

Hopeless romantic 💕