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How do I get out of this hump I am experiencing?


Hi! I am a 19 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend, and it is kinda driving me crazy. The problem i really have right now is that i really want a girlfriend but i am kinda scared to actually do something about it.

I am trying online dating for some time now and it kinda sucks, i do get matches but its really hard to have someone get interested in you when they have 0 input. I did get one girl who apparently was interested and also wanted to meet up but she asked me almost nothing and it was really hard to have a conversation with her because of the lack of effort and input. So i kinda lost interest because of that.

I have always been someone that liked to be alone, and thus i lack experience. That really sucks because i know if i want a girlfriend in need to get out of the house and do stuff, it is just really hard for me. I get scared of the thought of going out there, becuase i have 0 experience and just don't know what to do.

I really need help to get over this hump, because i know in order to actually get someone you need to go out there and not just stay home all the time and be sad about not having a girlfriend. It may be weird but i am really struggling with it.

How do I get out of this hump I am experiencing?
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