Search Results: not having sex in relationship

My boyfriend is totally different?

I meet him last year September, we’ve been great. We moved in together in September and that’s when we started to have this conflicts. We fight almost everyday. He said few times that he wants to break up, then when we...

Lilibet

Xper 4 Age: 30

Would you bring protection on your first night together?

I (29) recently started dating this girl (25). We are both little shy and slow. We yet to have sex. Next week we will spend the weekend together. Would you bring some protection with yourself or when you speak about the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Hypothetically question Would you be able to trust your partner after cheating?

If you were with someone for a very long time and they were cheating for a few months and you got back together with them after or were trying to cause you dumped him, would you be able to ever trust them ever again? Do...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I heal from this? Was I wrong in my reaction?

I had been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks. Him and I had a history prior to this for about 2 years, and I think he knew my feelings for him had never really gone away. Things never ended well between us before, but he...

sunshineflowers789

Xper 1 Age: 27

Do people usually come back to their partners after pushing them away during a depressive episode?

I have been dating this guy since February. (24F & 27M) He asked me out, pulled away after our first date because he didn’t expect us to hit it off as well as we did. We ended up staying friends but still kind of dating....

jessst

Xper 4 Age: 30

Feeling very unwanted/undesired in my relationship?

I really feel unwanted and under-appreciated in my relationship and it's starting to really hurt. I feel like I do all the giving but never really get anything back. I pay for most things most of the time in our...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is sex a deal breaker in your relationships?

This is a 2-part question: 1. Would you date someone who refuses to have sex with you until marriage? 2. I agreed to date someone like that. But now I'm having these extremely strong sexual urges, it's frustrating....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Thoughts on scheduling sex in a relationship?

I know that spontainity it's best, but sometimes life can be too busy. My wife and I sometimes have to "schedule" sex because we can be very busy, plus some days she has to wake up at 3AM for work - and of course, all the...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28

Society & Politics

Do we live in an upside-down world where things don't make sense?

- Older virgins of both genders or those that only had one partner treating it as if it were a diease and thinking having multiple partners is a glory. It should ''what's wrong with me, why do I sleep with 10 people in a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How you supposed to know its your kid when you bang a girl who's a hoe?

I mean obviously they can test for it, but that will go over well, lol honestly, in the beginning of a relationship and you aren't official yet, you don't know who else they're having sex with. Girls will lie about that...

red324

Guru Age: 37

What do you call a guy that twists the truth and actually believes it?

So it’s a little complicated, I have been friends with this guy since 15, we are now 34. We have always been close but ended moving to different countries in 2010, we lost contact and got into relationships and then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

10 Dates Ideas To Save Your Romantic Relationship

Everyone knows that relatioship sometimes can be tough. Living and sharing everything with another person can sometimes make people feel oppressed or in search of some spaces. Do you think that the spark in your relation...

Clara4567

Xper 5 Age: 27

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I exposed a man and it backfired… am I wrong?

So I was kicked out of a group for exposing a man and people felt that I was “bitter” and called me “crazy” for speaking my truth on this man. It was a very invalidating experience. Let me be clear on why I’m exposing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

So I was kicked out of a group for exposing a man and people felt that I was “bitter” and called me “crazy” for speaking my truth on this man. It was a very invalidating experience.

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Marriage & Weddings

I’m not having sex until I’m married, but people think it’s a waste of time. Why is it so bad to wait until marriage?

I don’t wanna waste my time with the wrong person and I don’t just wanna have sex and be just a waste. I’m saving it until my wedding night and I want my first time to be special, not a waste. I’ve been asking if I’m a...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

Should I continue with this casual relationship, or leave it?

I’m at a stage in my life where I don’t feel ready for anything serious. I’ve been enjoying my time with a handsome man, with a beautiful body in a friends with benefits situation. My first time of having sex in 6 years,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

We by is it so hard if I don’t need much?

Why do men make it hard even though I don’t need them for anything besides sex? (In a relationship I only require spending time together but I’m not with relationships just looking for hookups now) Shouldn’t they be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

You ever felt like you were justified for cheating on someone?

We all know cheating is wrong but is it wrong if your partner is treating you like shit , and disrespecting you and belittling you , making you feel like nothing you do is good enough , they with hold intimacy and...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48