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Guys, I feel like I’m the problem, brutal honesty please? He’s older than me and calls me childish-says I should be his peace not starting drama?

We were originally friends with benefits, feelings grew and we both wanted more. So we got into a relationship. In the beginning he never had time for us. Was usually always working or helping his sister and her kids out....
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Older gal laughs at a friend's story, saying, "Your guy is just crazy for you and trying to make you jealous. Is he out of the pic yet?" Is she right?

Was having drinks with a friend telling her tale of woe (guy showed up to something for a "just friends" person and she lost her shit). I was telling her I get it... same recently happened to me. An older lady (the...
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I'm 25 f, would I be wasting my time with a 21 year old guy?

Be honest. I know guys tend to be attracted to younger women, right? The thing is he thought I was 21 because I look young. I told him I'm 25 , he doesn't seem to mind. I'm just not used to dating younger guys. What if...
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Why do people stare and laugh at you in public?

[Excuse my grammar] The only possibility is prejudice considering is brown and I am in a predominantly white town. I noticed a habit all my life since I was old enough to be on my own of people staring and making fun of...
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Do men have a timeline when it comes to having kids?

I went out a few dates with a guy who lied about his age that he was 40 when he was actually 50. Instant rejection. He doesn't have the lifespan to raise kids. I asked my 68 yr old mother "is a 50 yr old man too old to...
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Why bad things keep happening mother might be a witch?

Ever since October when my stepmom turned evil against me my life has been downhill. I didn't payed from the one job from a whole month then I accidentally burn both sides of my face. The car kept breaking down and then...
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Why am I worried about my wife's past all of a sudden?

We are on our Valentines date and we started discussing how I wish we would have met when we were younger. Then she mentioned a crush she had in high school on this guy that was a year older. She was somewhat close to...
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Why do people care about this Valentine’s Day when it’s all about money for retailers?

Again, the most depressing day of the year. I’m an autistic 48 year old man, never dated, never was “with” a girl, never had many friends. Abused emotionally as a child by my dad, bullied all through kindergarten to high...
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Is this a red flag or him being nice? Does he expect something from me?

“I took a taxi service to go to work, and the driver asked what time I get off. He offered to come back and pick me up and said he could take me to and from work with no charge. Is that normal?”He’s older guy
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Can you be a serial cheat and still be a family man?

there's this guy at my work who i hate that I don't hate. His name is Ollie, he's a very good looking older man probably early 40s. he's well aware he has looks on this side. he's a farther of two young boys and lives...
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Guys, Do you start talking to "new girl" before you've fully left "old girl"?

I've seen so many guys do this and I don't know why. They feel their current relationship is in a slump and suddenly start calling or chatting with another gal... He'll convince himself "we're just friends" but the way...
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Almost 30 but not ready to settle down?

I never had this feeling of wanting to settle down. Never had baby fever. Never wanted to get married. I thought it will all change as I get older but the older I get the more I feel like I prefer living alone. It’s...
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Have you ever been made to get food for your boyfriend?

I'm working on myself and my health first before entering the dating world again as I'm currently unprepared. I saw a show where a man in his 60s was in an arranged marriage with a young woman. After they tried for a...
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I'm working on myself and my health first before entering the dating world again as I'm currently unprepared. I saw a show where a man in his 60s was in an arranged marriage with Show More
I've had guys make me bring food to them
I've never been told to "fetch" food
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Why do some people keep asking when am I going to get a man or start dating again?

Okay so I just turned 36 almost three months ago and I haven’t dated since I was like 21/22 years old back in 2011. The only relationship I’ve had was with a guy that I went to school with. We’ve known each other since we...
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Ladies 40 and under, do you get offended when a guy asks how old you are?

I don’t ask any myself. Just wondered if it’s still a thing in 2026.
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Have you ever been late to respond to someone important and didn't know how to continue?

It's a bit of a long story but I literally missed the superbowl to talk to this guy like c'mon! 😂 He's much older than I am and reached out first which I think was supposed to signal he was a little annoyed. I dunno, the...
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Met a walking red flag, hope I can get some advice. How to give up on someone you already have bonds with?

I know it sounds stupid.. and i didn’t make right decisions… no judges.. here’s what happened.. i met a guy from app. I was upset at the moment so i wasn’t aware that he was a red flag. I let him come to pick me up from...
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Am I being dumb by falling for someone before my divorce is finalized?

I’m divorcing my husband I told him a few months ago I wanted a divorce. He is a pathological liar and cheater and I keep forgiving him and eventually stop caring after he cheated on me while I was pregnant and I lost the...
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Did I mess it up…?

So I’d gone on 3 dates with this older guy…I really liked him but felt like there were things about us that were so different (ex. Faith, speed of intimacy, dating styles) that made me concerned for the future (if it even...
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Isn't it weird how people judge young women?

If an 18 year old guy is into old women it's cool, but if an 18 year old girl likes old man it's all sorts of wrong. It's weird.
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