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Would a relationship work if my partner is more in love with me than I am?

We're both in our 30s, with me a bit older. I'm in an LDR. We met for the first time a few weeks ago, 3 months into the relationship. We had so much fun. We got along well and everytime one of us felt anything negative,...
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Ladies if a man hadn't had sex in a long time and didn't have a high body count could you still be with him and/or marry him?

Right now it is 8 years going on 9 in several months. I ask not so much that I am concerned about purely sex. It is more so my concerns about how a woman will view me when I have to tell her the truth. Because I have been...
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Have you ever dated a hobosexual and didn’t realize until later?

So I was in relationship with this guy that appeared stable when we first started dating. Had his own place, car, and job. A series of events happened when I started finding things out about him once I was invested one by...
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Girls, I was given lots of mixed signals, any thoughts or advice?

I recently caught up with an old friend of mine at a party who I knew had a crush on me when we were younger (Middle school young then, I'm 23 now, she's 21) I shared the feelings but never asked her out, and I told her...
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Why is it so common for people to pass up decent catches for people who are walking red flags?

I seriously don't get it. Even when there isn't a decent catch involved, I swear that a huge percentage people either have chased, or are currently chasing after people who are just giant walking red flags. Unpleasant...
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Why do men play this way?

Hey friends, So i randomly crossed paths with one guy one day and had a huge crush on him instantly. He hadn’t seen me though. I decided to add him straight away, he added me back and slid in my dm’s asking me if we knew...
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Did I do anything wrong?

I have been speaking to a guy for a few weeks and I noticed that he follows my ex ‘situationship’ but did not think much of it because I know men associate with each other through gym etc without being too friendly and we...
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Break up went from being mutual to being very toxic, how to I handle this now?

This all happened a few hours ago sadly. Been with my man for just little under a year. For the most part i was pretty happy but he was a very detached sort of person where as i enjoy love language quite a lot. About...
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What does this even mean? What’s going on here?

This guy talked to me for three months. We didn’t even meet either but anyways we talked at least trying to take things slow I guess I don't know he was kinda sweet talker in my opinion but anyways left me on read for two...
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My relationship almost feels like a daddy-daughter dynamic. will this be a problem later?

My fiancé has severe anxiety and is likely on the Autistic Spectrum. She has only been diagnosed with anxiety and takes medication for it. She also has a skin condition, but I notice she picks at her skin when she is...
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Would a medical condition be a red flag that would stop you from dating a person?

A co-worker and friend, named James, was divorced a few years ago. He has used online dating and has met several women through dating sites. One of them - Judy, 59 - is a very attractive woman, fit, cute face,...
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Am I wrong for breaking up with girls’ that prioritize their friends ‘ over me? Read Below?

Not saying she can’t have friends’ but I usually end up with girls’ that want me to prioritize them and choose them over my friends’ which I do, because I put myself in her shoes , out of respect for our relationship...
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How do I make my stubborn girlfriend understand the aspect of safety as a woman living alone?

Hi, I am 31(M) in my long-distance relationship with my girlfriend (F,26). My girlfriend has faced 2 near-death incidents, and she isn't taking it seriously. The first incident occurred in February of this year. My...
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Not on his social media?

Been dating exclusive for a year, met his family, some friends. His ex girlfriend was on his social media, he tagged her and she tagged him. Photos of them on holiday for his birthday etc, other holiday photos....
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When is it a red flag for my boyfriend to be unemployed?

my boyfriend (24) quit his job at the end of June because he said his work environment was just toxic and he couldn’t take it anymore. he just graduated last year. he didn’t have a job lined up, so now he’s frantically...
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Do you always aim for an “upgrade” each time you get into a new relationship?

Be it in terms of looks, personality, income, what they can offer to the table or what have you - I always look for a better partner than my last. Not only that, I also learned a lot from each of my failed relationship so...
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Why Do Men Have Less Red Flags They Avoid In A Relationship?

Men are so desperate. If I tell my female friend, my boyfriend is crazy, she'd tell me to run. If I were a guy and said the same about my girlfriend to my homies, I'd get at least one guy saying something like “crazy...
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