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I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have a 1 year old daughter together. I also have a 9yo son from my previous relationship and my husband has adopted him. His family has always been toxic but it's always been in a "I feed off drama" way and nothing more. However, they really upped it last year. Basically my sister in laws husband hit my 9yo son in the back of the head out of anger (my son was playing tag with his cousin and ran inside and the door slammed behind him). It was a hard hit. Cops were called and the police did nothing because there was no witnesses outside of me and they called it a "he said she said" thing and stated that we needed to work through our own family conflict. They claimed my son wasn't a reliable witness because he wouldn't speak to them (he's incredibly shy, has ASD and was just assaulted by a grown ass man so he was already scared - he just kept hiding behind me saying "mum can you just tell them" and they took this as me making shit up and leading my son to say something that wasn't true).

When my sister in law found out what happened she was initially on our side and scolded her husband. But he threatened to divorce her, so she did a 180° and started claiming her husband did nothing wrong and that he only hit my son because my kid has been repeatedly told not to slam doors and didn't listen so her husband had an "impulse reaction" and claimed "no harm, no foul" because my son was fine. So, I cut all contact and when our daughter was born we refused to let her anywhere near her despite her being extremely excited for the baby and having made all these customized items for her. She was destroyed over it but oh well. Don't defend a child abuser.

Well, here it is a year later and my mother in law brought it up randomly and stated "I understand completely why he hit your son." So I told her to leave and she wasn't welcome back here around my children. Now my husband is upset because he wants his mother around.

Why doesn't Sons make an effort to bond with his mother like his sister's do? He is the Male he has make the move in building ilthe mother and Son relationship. It's his duty, his responsibility. He's the Man.

When thinking of a mother /child bond or relationship, the first thing that comes to mind is the mother daughter one. Nothing is stronger than that, nothing is more powerful than a mother's love for her baby girl. ... But not the same can be said about the Mother and Son. Son's are left alone in their own whilst mother and daughter have their Moment.

In South Africa, fathers have rights to their children that vary depending on their relationship status with the child's mother:

Married fathers

Automatically have full parental rights and responsibilities if they were married to the child's mother at the time of conception, birth, or any time after that.

Unmarried fathers

Can acquire parental rights and responsibilities if they meet certain criteria, such as:

Living with the mother in a permanent life partnership at the time of birth

Agreeing to be identified as the child's father at birth

Applying to be identified as the child's father

Contributing to the child's upbringing

Visitation rights

Fathers have legal rights to visitation with their children, regardless of their relationship status with the mother.

Parental rights surrender

A father can voluntarily surrender his parental rights and responsibilities through legal procedures. This is a serious step that requires careful consideration and legal guidance.

A lot of you ladies are delusional thinking you're going to get a successful man when you have nothing to offer. You chicks are delusional, aren't attractive, have no personality, are insecure, are not smart, socially awkward, weird, and have mental health issues and lack emotional control. You're not getting a rich man or any man.

Often/ majority of the time, very wealthy men are with women who are within their circle who also happen to be successful. These women may not be as rich as these men, but they are successful and established.



Simple examples are pictured below:

Rihanna (Musician and business owner) was asked out by Billionaire Sheikh Hassaan and dated.

Janet Jackson ( well renowned musician basically music royalty sister to Michael Jackson and cousin of Steve Wonder and Samuel l. Jackson) was asked out by billionaire sheikh , married him and had a child with.

Grimes (Musician Rock Nation signed by Jay z) was in a relationship with Elon Musk south African billionaire Tesla cars and paypal business owner. She is also the mother of his child

Venus Williams ( successful athlete) married and asked out by reddit Armenian business owner Alexis Ohanian.