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i gained so much weight these last two years, went up over 10kgs 😭😭 now i'm 73.5kgs (161lbs) for 1m73 (barely 5'8), which puts me at a bmi of 24.5.. 0.5 points more and i'm in the overweight category... (by the way a healthy bmi is 18.5 to 24.9..)

the question though is how much should i lose, like to be at my prettiest to most people? like what should be my gw out of these?

1. We watched a Instagram video of a girl who was overweight chasing a man inside a car throwing money. Eventually the woman lost weight from doing that. So then my boyfriend says " you should try doing that" and laughed. I asked him what he meant by that and if it has anything to do with my weight and he said it's nothing and I'm overthinking.

2. One day we were talking and I said when I get a break from my child who drives me nuts I want to use that time to meditate and relax. He suggested that I use that time to exercise with him.

3. We had another discussion. This was about vertigo attacks and what causes them. He said his mom got vertigo attacks too but probably because she's in the heat. When it came to me he said the vertigo attacks could be from poor eating.

From all of this I'm convinced he doesn't accept me or like me but I'm a few pounds overweight. But he doesn't want me to leave him which is crazy. 🥴