Search Results: what does my ex want

Going no contact with dismissive avoidant?

My ex of 1.5 years and I had a long distance relationship. The distance and no plans to move in together in the near future put a lot of strain on the relationship. Trust, insecurity, were also part of the problem on both...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my boyfriend wrong for needing reassurance that I won’t cheat back on him?

So my boyfriend of 3 years got caught cheating with his ex. We’re working it out. However, I recently admitted to him that I briefly thought about cheating back as revenge. It was a thought that popped up in the midst of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I can’t tell if this is normal or if my boyfriend doesn’t love me anymore?

My boyfriend has already done something to really hurt me but i decided to forgive him and told him if it happens again im not going to be with him anymore, to which he hasn't done ever again but i still feel like he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My ex-FWB ended things with me when she got into a relationship. Why does she no longer want to at least be friends?

My ex-FWB unfollowed me on social media and won’t really talk to me when she sees me in group settings now that she has a boyfriend.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if an ex wants to support you through troubled times?

My ex said she has my back , and said she is going to support me through this hell I am going though , She wants to be back with me but she has burned me to many times to the point I can’t really trust her anymore , so do...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

What does it mean when a man says he is addicted to you?

My ex told me that before we broke up, he said “I am addicted to you. I wouldn’t wait for any woman for 2 years but you. You do something to me that is more than love. I lose myself in you, it scares me. I am addicted.”...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

Are daddy issues solvable?

Okay so this question is more for women that grew up with an absent father. A bit of backstory to better explain my question, the kind of dad where you know he loves you but he fucked up so bad when you were young (an...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Are there guys out there who genuinely find an average girl attractive and does not wish or fantasies about better looking women?

I have always felt a pressure to look a certain way, to have the whole instagram drop dead gorgeous type of beauty. I’m nothing special. I’m plain. White, skinny, no facial features that stick out except maybe my eyes. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I wrong for breaking up with my ex and?

I was dating this guy for 3 years and he will always give me the silent treatment when he was mad. My birthday was a few months back and he told me he is planning something. I took 1 week off work. The week before my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he being immature or he just doesn't care?

A few months ago my ex-boyfriend broke up with me and I still don't know the reason why. every time I ask he says "I did nothing" Now before the whole breakup he just stopped talking to me and his friends because he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my ex checking up on me to see if I am still single?

So I recently ended a 3 month situation-ship kinda thing with this guy, we had started off as good friends, but just realised that ultimately we wanted different things and were just in different things. We ended on good...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if someone breaks up with you and promptly gets on dating apps?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Sunday at 9pm, he broke up with me, saying that he's struggling with trauma and other things and just wants to be alone while he deals with it. Within 12 hours he got a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean exactly please?

My ex told me he could not give me the family that I want (he already has kids…etc) so I took it as he wants to break up with me and I decided to move on with my life. We basically had the conversation two days ago....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girlfriend broke up with me after my cancer diagnosis saying she does not want to deal with my cancer. What kind of psychopath is she?

I was diagnosed with Thyroid cancer. The girlfriend i. e., now ex categorically told me she did not want to deal with my cancer and wants to break up. After the break up she has been emailing me videos about 'True Love'...

David1108

Xper 4 Age: 36

Why would this guy who ended up being a situationship watch my stories every 2-3 months?

The guy who lied he wants a relationship and didn't tell me about going to the army watches my stories and his friend does this as well sometimes but even more often than my ex situationship (who i trusted) and I don't...

CoolCatMar1

Yoda Age: 22

Would you continue to associate with people if they openly shamed and humiliated your partner?

I hope gag select my question as a great question. I feel so bad about my friend and I wrote a post here about her yesterday. People humiliated her so badly that she cried, and his mother was extremely protective of her....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my ex keep coming back?

my ex has 2 kids by a woman that he’s off and on with. before he had this new family i was the ex right before the first kid. he keeps coming back … sometimes he will flirt with me , other times he seems to want to work...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I put a man to use?

If you are unusually intelligent respond to my question How can I get a man to be a needed person in my life? I don't need someone who has sex with me and then does not contribute to my life. I am fine and I do not have...

Anonymous

(30-35)