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Would you continue to associate with people if they openly shamed and humiliated your partner?

I hope gag select my question as a great question. I feel so bad about my friend and I wrote a post here about her yesterday.

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People humiliated her so badly that she cried, and his mother was extremely protective of her. Her spouse works for the government and separates his life. He constantly keeps his personal and professional lives separate, and most importantly, his love life is absolutely discreet. He has made it known to everyone that he does not want his wife involved with his profession because it entails law enforcement actions. His coworkers refer to him as "bro". In actual life, these folks realized he was married and began picking on his wife when he traveled abroad. His coworkers and others openly humiliated his wife.

For example, calling her insane, claiming her Facebook profile is fake, claiming they never heard him speak of her, and claiming he abandoned her for someone else. They also said that she was miserable and that he was an ex to her. These are only some of the rumors they put out here. The people who worked with him believed they knew him best, yet he was not who they thought he was.

Her husband did not mind her writing about his return from overseas. My friend is already overjoyed that her spouse is returning, so she frequently posts about him on Facebook. Nobody talks to her, they blocks her on Facebook, and they treat her as if she doesn't exist even in person. Because he never mentioned her to coworkers or friends, they humiliated her. He made it clear that when he returns, he do not want anyone around him. She does nothing to anyone and is really quiet. They publicly humiliated her since he never mentioned her. His co-workers found out they were married, but because he never mentioned or heard of her, they chose to treat my friend badly. People believed they knew him well, and she was just insane. He made it known to his family that he did not want his wife involved in anything he was doing.

Would you continue to associate with people if they openly shamed and humiliated your partner?
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