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I happen to take this matter personally because of what happened to me.

When I was 20, I met this 16 year old girl online on an adult dating app. We really hit it off, and we began conversing for a series of months. We both researched the age of consent in her state, and found that it was 16. I drove to meet her, and we had a date. Things got intense later, and we ended up having sex. It ended up only being a weekend fling because she didn't want to pursue a romantic relationship with me. I was heartbroken. We had a dispute weeks later, and she never wanted to speak to me again.

7 months later while at my college dorm, I made an idiotic decision to drive back to her state to apologize and win her heart again. I was met at the door by her father, who was unhappy to see me to say the least. I shook his hand and agreed to cut complete contact. As I went back to my hotel, the police knocked on my door and arrested me. Fast forwarding, I was sentenced to 3 years supervised probation. The collateral damages were just as bad if not worse, as I lost my EMT license and my career.

The reason why I bring this up is because if this were to happen to someone who was elite, had money, or had high influential status, they would have likely just received a slap on the wrist or not have been touched at all by the law.

Instead, an average everyday person, let alone a young 20/21 year old trying to pursue love at that time, had his entire reputation and livelihood destroyed.

These elitist bastards flew 14 year old girls on an island, passed them around as casual sex dolls, and they get away with it completely unscathed. It's sick.

Now that I am 31 and married, I look back in hindsight with regret and sadness I became so desperate. I was young and dumb. But I am even more angry at the devastation it caused for so many years when, meanwhile, elitists just continue to thrive and get away with high-profile crimes.

Zohran Mamdani says he’ll call President Trump before taking office, claiming a relationship is “critical” to NYC’s success. Do you think this phone call with President Trump will work out in Zohran Mamdani’s favor?

Zohran Mamdani knows Donald Trump is “critical” to NYC’s success - www.newsweek.com/zohran-mamdani-knows-donald-trump-critical-to-nyc-success-11030810

Personally, I don’t think President Trump will or should give Mamdani anything he wants. Mamdani is an enemy of the USA who wants President Trump to adhere to his demands by framing it as a heartfelt olive branch that would make President Trump look bad if he denies it. Mamdani wants President Trump to refrain from sending ICE into NYC when it is the city that needs ICE raids the most, and Mamdani wants President Trump to federally fund his socialist agenda in the city. It will not work out in Mamdani’s favor at all. Let people criticize President Trump for denying the snake this olive branch. I have a good feeling the president won’t even take Mamdani’s call 🤣